My mother showed up at my house and accused me of ruining my 19 year old brothers relationship with his 18 year old girlfriend.

All I had to say was “So which other girl did she find out about? her neighbors sister(who is 16) or best friends sister?(who is also 16) or the girl she tutors in math (who is 15)”

My mother says my brother would NEVER cheat on his girlfriend and I made it up to ruin his life because I am petty and miserable and don’t want anyone else to feel good about themselves.

Admittedly sometimes I am miserable, but my brother is a classic megalomaniac, he thinks the world revolves around him and that rules don’t apply to his person. My mother has never been able to realize that her younger children aren’t perfect…she blames me for all of their problems,

But this one is just…im not sure why, I should be pissed, but all I can do is laugh!

Just an observation, not a judgment, but it sounds like you have a lot of drama and upheaval in your life.

I agree with Alien. You have a lot of irritating relatives. No offense, but some of your relatives seem a bit ignorant…

no offense taken, my family sucks, the only person who didn’t judge me after my diagnosis was my step dads mom and she died a couple years ago.

I was going to say that there’s a lot of unnecessary drama in your life. I couldn’t handle it if it was with me.

People get addicted to drama.

I used to be so jealous of guys like your brother. Now I’m glad I don’t have to do that to feel good about myself.

This incited love for her. I think she was a good person.

she was the most beautiful woman I have ever known, both physically and in soul, when I saw a pic of her on her wedding day she had barely changed in 50 years, sure her hair was white when I knew her, and she was thin in that ‘I’m old and the weight just melts off’ kind of way (plus she was battling cancer for 12 of the 22 years I knew her) but her mind and her heart, the two parts of what I call the soul, she never wished ill on anyone, no matter what they had done to her. it is hard to believe that an ■■■■■■■ like my stepdad was raised by a woman like her.

Hey dre - your mum sounds just like my mum at her worst times. Yesterday she accused me of making up my paranoia just to get attention. I love her but she can be full of ■■■■.

yah I love my mom, I would die for anyone in my family, but its a pretty one sided deal. its just a matter of my Grandfather having been the biggest male influence on my life, and he was one of those guys who would take bullet for a complete stranger

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sometimes all you can do is laugh :slight_smile:

Beware that type of laughter.