Can't afford to do anything

I’m on disability. My partner is disabled but still in the process of getting disability, which as we know isn’t easy or fast.

We live on my income, with other people, and provide groceries and chores to earn our keep. After bills are paid and necessities bought, there’s nothing left.

How are we supposed to get out of here and make a life not dependant on others? There’s no money left to save or invest. We feel guilty about taking space and resources from others who don’t particularly want us here, but there’s no escape.

What’s the point guys? Living a life of uncertainty, anxiety and guilt hardly seems worth it.

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Maybe things will get better when your partner gets disability. Can you try to work part-time?

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I’ve worked part time on and off my whole life, but due to the fact that I have a disability, this is unsustainable. Employers expect too much, even from people without disabilities, which means I don’t last too long. A few months at best.

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i know its hard but don’t give up! there’s plenty to live for its an honorable position you are in though it may not feel like it. There is great inequality in this world, just because you have been a victim of it doesn’t mean you’re doing something wrong. Stay strong! God bless.

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Thank you. Your kind words are a balm for the soul.

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thanks @catchme hope youre doing well now :slight_smile: How are things going? happy to hear back from you

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Hi again, I’m withdrawing from meds suddenly and hurting emotionally, but I have my kitties and a kind stranger to remind me it will be okay. Honestly, it might seem silly, but your words were uplifting. Thank you.

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You live in the US? Then you are very, very right.

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thank you so much for your kindness. I hope youre doing alright. JW is there a reason why youve stopped meds? they do seem to be a key to success for so many people with SZ. Wishing you blessings, especially during the holiday season.

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I was forced to stop the meds suddenly because the doctor I was seeing ghosted, leaving the practice. I’ve been waiting to see a new doctor but they’re overbooked, and I’ve been waiting long enough that I can’t have more refills until I see the doctor. I have an appointment in January and intend to go back on them. I thank you for your concern. :heart:

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Yep, US. Employment in this country is a nightmare, as it sounds like you’re aware.

Indeed. They want the most work for the lowest wages and they don’t have any attachment to you regardless of how much you’ve done for them or how long you’ve worked there…

Not that I have any experience in any of that… :thinking: :face_with_hand_over_mouth:

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It’s really insane how little security working oneself to the bone offers in this country, and yet it’s still necessary if you wanna eat and keep the lights on. We need unions.

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