Ok guys… be honest. Can a weirdo like myself get a girlfriend? Or is there a certain kind of dysfunction that makes it impossible.
I’ve been on this forum for a while and I feel like maybe you guys could tell?
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Of course, you gotta put yourself out in the world though. Dating sites are a sham and scammers everywhere. You are a good guy so somewhere out there would be lucky to have you.
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Yes.
What are you looking for in a partner?
I think you have to have an answer to the question “what do you do?”.
You could consider volunteering as that might give you an answer to that question. If you got lucky, you might even meet someone while volunteering!
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Sure you can. Lots of eligible women out there, a few billion to be exact. Seinfeld covers it rather well:
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I really don’t know. Kindness, honestly and maybe crazy like me 
Im gonna try to work soon!!! I feel like it’s a good chance I will have an episode but I’m gonna try !!! They don’t seem to think creative stuff counts
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That’s great news. If you actually have a proper job, then finding someone should be much much easier!
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Would volunteering disqualify you from SSDI?
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Great question. Maybe @anon31960475 should get an answer to that before he volunteers.
I’ve no idea. I’m in Europe 
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From my googling, volunteering can threaten your SSDI.
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Eeek. Scrap that idea then. Good job you questioned it.
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Genius.
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Can you be witty and filled with charm? Can you win a lady’s heart?
Getting a neurotypical usually takes employment as a prerequisite?
Or you can join some neurodivergent clubs to meet the ladies. People who understand.
All my ex girlfriends were normies, but I had a job at the time or was studying to get them.
Good luck!
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Lol. I have been watching the last couple days and seeing how everybody says “oh, you/I have to have the perfect job to have a girlfriend” in a couple different threads.
I just went to to my aunts with my dad to work on a rototiller 2 days ago. This attractive young woman showed up and came through the gate and went in throught the basement door. Looked like she was bringing my cousin a 12 pack of soda.
My cousin totally has no job and is living in my aunts basement. A crappy unfinished basement at that. Not paying rent. Nothing. And this attractive woman is a teacher and his girlfriend.
So, there are lots of factors at play in these scenarios.
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That’s what my therapist said. I should get a neurodivergent girl!!!
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Is your cousin like a super model lol
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I’ll bill the therapist and go halves for the advice… 
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I have no idea. I am not good at judging mens looks. As far as I can tell he’s good looking. My guess is its more about his personality than looks.
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Yeah women also appreciate guys with decent personalities
It’s not all about looks
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