I think when I have a boyfriend I will be much more happy. I know lots of u if not all of u think that is bad thinking but I do depend on that. Doesn’t mean I don’t have to work on myself independently too. I don’t know how to make friends but I think I know how to have a boyfriend. Hopefully in the future I’ll also get a friend or two or three. But I’m not sure, idk wat kind of people are out there in my area.
But I have come across a nice guy online in the past. But I wasn’t mature enough to continue it.
It would feel so good to have someone u can speak to at that level of bf gf. I want to be with someone where I don’t feel the need or want to flirt with anyone. I want to feel I can trust them and that they enjoy my presence. And I enjoy their presence.
Just need to lose weight, get rid of my excess hair, work on my brain and all will b good, they will drop into my life lollllll
Those are all nice aspirations to have @anon90843118. No one should be able to tell you whether having a boyfriend is good for you or not. I have a partner, and we’ve been together for 12 years. We are at that stage where we are comfortable with each other and non judgemental with things like weight or hair. However, that comfortable state only comes about after you’ve been together for a few years. People tend to expect that the feeling of lust will remain within the relationship, but it doesn’t. After about 3 or so years, lust subsides, and it is at this point that your relationship will be tested. Those who thrive on lust will end the relationship, but it is also at this point where your partner will become comfortable with you and you’ll be there for each other. I wish you all the best in your search for a suitable boyfriend.
Both of mine are really cool, one is kinda old and the other one is still young. One needs more care than the other though, but they both do alright by themselves when left alone.
yeh I am very picky about things like that when it comes to my own body.IDK why, it is partly genetic I think. I don’t really understand it. I seem to have an obsession with being healthy before I get into a relationship in body and to a good extnt in mind too.
I would like to have a partner in the future.
It would have to be someone reliable, trustworthy, compassionate, self-reliant and possibly asexual or able to take care of their needs without involving me or cheating.
Man, woman, somewhere inbetween, I don’t care.
I do have a slight preferene for femininely presenting people, but I think it’s because of past trauma that I have a distrust of male presenting people. Or rather, penises.
I also don’t care too much about looks, as long as they take care of themselves and look healthy.
To be honest I’ve got too many freaking issues for a woman at this time — got to take care of myself if I ever want a girlfriend …
However I like deep types, sweet as well – I would want someone i can engage in deep discussion all night long…
I want my girlfriend to look a certain way. Like an attractive, noble-looking Indian who does something sweet with her life, like teach, but I don’t want to be too choosy about that.
Mainly it’s about looks and being fairly “normal”.
I don’t want a particularly nerdy wife, like an engineer, I’ve got more than enough of that nerdiness to go around.
Relationships are very important to me. I’d like someone like the man I dated last year. Patient, stable, a bit of an intellectual, appreciates music, loving and caring.
Edit: it was my illness that destroyed our relationship
