Poll: Do you ACTUALLY want a girlfriend/boyfriend?

  • I already have one
  • I’m happier single, so NO
  • I’m not happier single, so YES

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Im want a gf but Im also happy without ^^

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I wanted a girlfriend but my husband wouldn’t let me have one.

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Yes and no
I would like a weekend boyfriend
I just want a companion to eat out with and travel

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Maybe I should forget about that until I have a job. But that’s not so easy as I hear a voice saying “he doesn’t have a girlfriend” 3-10 times every day. At least it’s not 15-20x a day anymore.

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I’m asexual so don’t want a partner. I’m very happy on my own.

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I think since I just overcame the chosen one belief, I think I can have a girlfriend now.

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I am never going have boyfriend now because I have no freinds to socialise with and meet men

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I send out conflicting messages. When it comes down to the killer move I don’t step up to the plate which makes me think I don’t really want a relationship even though I spend a lot of time in fantasy about one.

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I am shy too I don’t chat merrily to men I like and most men I’ve met are just meeeen

I don’t want A bf/gf, I’m waiting until I want THAT one rather than SOME one :stuck_out_tongue:

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I have a boyfriend but I don’t think he is the one…

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I used to be desperate for boyfriend in early 20s now I’m not fussed

I don’t connect happiness with making an erotic relationship but with having a good relationship and companion with yourself first of all, to not depend and build your happiness with your own values.
Of course I would like a girl but now I prefer friendship because that’s what i can offer to someone.

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I have been with my partner for almost ten years. We want to get married but I can’t be covered by her insurance because of having a pre existing condition or something like that

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When u get to 30 u start thinking differently

Your poll indicates that I have to be single to want a boyfriend…

:rofl:

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This one is hard to answer. Sometimes I’m so lonely and wish I had a partner…other times the thought of having someone new in my life and having to explain my disorder to, and all the fear that comes along with telling someone that your Schizophrenic/Schizo-affective, is overwhelming…and makes me glad I don’t have anyone else in my life to judge me. But I’m 35, I’ve had a couple of minor relationships with boys but they didn’t last long, one was before I was diagnosed (as a teenager) and one well he wasn’t exactly a “boyfriend” I was tempted to try his “open-relationship” thing with him but honestly I really didn’t him to be my first time…so it didn’t pan out. I’m glad too because he turned out to be a real jerk even stole from clients and the hotel he was working for…

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Some time ago I would think: “I need a girlfriend because I’ll be unhappy if I live an alone life.” Now I’m thinking differently and I feel I can achieve many things in life while single.

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I don’t know how to answer this really. I’m not sad about being single cos sometimes with the guys I’ve met , I’m better off that way. But I would love to have a best friend for life. I don’t have many friends but one long term friend would be amazing.

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