So my bf has been in a mood lately. Yesterday he finally told me why. He thought I must be cheating on him since we only have sex a few times a month, I must be getting it somewhere else. I felt really sad. It’s my libido, I just feel sexless asexual. Except for the week of my period, then I get a little frisky. I explained that in no way would I ever cheat and that I have no libido. He seemed to have empathy and calmed down.
I guess to maintain the relationship maybe I need to make more of an effort even though I have no desire to. I mean I want him to be happy and fulfilled.