Bf asked if I was cheating

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I notice a difference on sarcosine

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Is Sarcosine the name of your new Spanish lover?

(rim shot)

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Lol I thought Iā€™m the only one who likes erotic fiction in the era of porn.

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When i was single i used to read erotic fiction. not 50 shades, better quality stuff than that.

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No one needed to know that

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Well my posting is about libido, so she is right on topic about ways to get it back.

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Iā€™m just playin. :cookie: does anyone like cookies?

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Why? (11551155)

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runs naked through the thread with pink helium balloon tied to my little dinky

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Okayā€¦OKAY!

Iā€™m done on this thread! :wink:

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I have a tainted history with erotic fiction.

It automatically downloaded to my Momā€™s iPad onceā€¦

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I tried the fish Patrick and got no response back. Your customer service is ā€œinterestingā€. :grinning:

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The kind of porn I like isnā€™t legal to make, so I read instead. Yeah, Iā€™mā€¦a little bit kinky.

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You can overdo the self sacrifice, but maybe you could get some hormone pills. It depends on how important sex is to you. Being in a relationship, there has to be give and take, but donā€™t let yourself be a door mat.

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I do miss sex. I was just googling ways to boost libido. Iā€™m on enough pills not sure i want to mess with hormones too. I suppose exercise would help some to get the blood flowing. Havenā€™t had the energy for that in like a month.

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Do you own any sex toys or a shower massager? Sometimes just having the stimulation can get me going when Iā€™m having a tough time.

And sometimes if I canā€™t have sex, I just get naked and look sexy at him while he masturbates. That way he still gets something, and I feel like I helped him get there.

One thing that helps more than anything else, is the fact that my boyfriend never pressures me or makes me feel guilty for not having sex. It is always up to me to initiate, because he genuinely does not want the sex unless Iā€™m enthusiastic about it. Sometimes that means a month and a half of no physical intimacy. Sometimes it means we start doing stuff and then I stop him. No matter what, he always makes sure I know Iā€™m in control and have nothing to feel guilty for. I still feel a little bit guilty sometimes, but he says thatā€™s why he has porn.

I get the feeling he tries to initiate more often than youā€™re comfortable with, which only increases you level of discomfort. What if he promised not to initiate or even ask about it for a month? Would it make you feel less like youā€™re under pressure to perform? The pressure alone can kill the mood sometimes.

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THANK YOU. Needed that. Rough day.

(Now to clean up the tea I just coughed out.)

Pixel.

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