I made a mistake. Seems like everyone makes mistakes, doesn’t it?
But I’m the only one being judged! Why?
If you are being judged, you aren’t the only one.
People love drama. Well, sometimes. As long as it isn’t too close to home. That’s why celebrity gossip magazines are popular.
People hate me that is why they judge me! I know this!
I’m not being rude, I’m being realistic
I feel like I’m being judged all the time, too. I particularly feel it if someone looks at me and I don’t know them. I feel like they can see right through me and see me for who I “really am” and judge me for it. It’s very irritating. Hope you feel better. 
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At least I know I’m not alone on this “judging” Earth
When you feel everyone is about to run you out of town, stand in front and make it look like a Parade!
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I read a study awhile back that showed how little time is spent by others thinking about one individual, It’s just paranoia kicking in, no one is spending time judging you
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No, I don’t think it’s paranoia, I know what is paranoia. This is true, people don’t like me and they’re seeking for a single chance to judge me. They are talking about me behind my back.
I feel intense judgement whenever I’m around other people. I can’t convince myself that they’re not judging me but I try to push it out of the forefront of my mind so I can function.
In my experience, most people are too busy talking about themselves to have much time left over to talk about someone else.
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Some people are judgmental. I don’t find them much fun to be around.
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i get judged plenty by my in laws, my family and strangers. when a psychiatrist suggested i take walks to help my weight i would get mean cat calls from people usually men from their cars.
the only time people will think about you is if you are affecting them in a serious way, usually life-or-death way. other than that, people usually mind their own business and go about their day as fluently as possible.
thinking (that everyone’s judging me) is not good for my MI
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Think it’s all in your head!
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You are not the first to being judged. It’s the very nature of human to judge others. My advice is to never chase people because you only end up losing your time….let it go the longer you hold on to it the more it hurts
The selfish, gain all. Those who judge you have one intention.
The selfish, gain all except for love.
Seems you are the one judging others.
You didn’t ask anyone if they didn’t like you, you assumed this, and you are inclined to believe you are the entire court, judge jury and all.
Try not jumping to conclusions without confirmations unless it’s sympathy your wanting.
Not liking ones behavior does not mean the entire person is unlikeable.
This is your opportunity to learn.
It very well could all be a paranoid imagination but none of us are in your shoes so we don’t know. I will assume it’s true and say I am sorry you are experiencing this.
I went through a time where I felt judged, hated and picked on. I was told that I need to get over myself. That no one is doing anything to me. Years later, not one but two of my ‘haters’ confirmed for me that my instinct was not off. One said to me “You were targeted. You were bullied.” and the other said “It bothered me how much attention you got [and impacted my negative behavior toward you]”
I also had another friend (frenemie?) tell me that I don’t get treated the same as others. That it is not my imagination I get treated differently. Not everyone gets the refreshing validation and apology that I have gotten but my story is proof that sometimes you really are being targeted. That’s why I said I can’t know for sure but out of empathy, I will assume it is true and say I am sorry you are dealing with this. Of course, I hope it’s NOT true and you feel better soon.
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