Are you a jealous person?

I am not sure if I am.

I have not been taught jealousy when I was a kid. My mom taught me to take my friends to sunday school and share my money and belongings with the poor. She forced us to be good basically.

But I did some bad things anyway. Stupid bad things.

Once after I renovated my apartment, my friend also wanted to renovate her office. I felt weird about it. Not sure if that is jealous but I got a bit angry because she did it after me.

If I ever get jealous, it would be a victoria secret model I guess. But without makeup they do not look better than me.

I get hurt instead of jealous. A different reaction.

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I’m a little like that. When I see people having girlfriends or wives sometimes it hurts somewhat. (Even though I would have to have an extremely good relationship to consider marriage)

I tell myself these people deserve their happiness and perhaps, some day, I will have mine.

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Generally speaking I don’t get jealous. But… I’m only human so it can happen.

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Nope. Never :smiley:

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I met someone who not only gets jealous, she also plots things to ruin your life. :flushed:
It was a bizarre experience for me.

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That supermodel stuff is all a fantasy. You’re damn right they don’t look any better than you.

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I’m not really a jealous person, I am quick to get rid of those who give me a reason to be if it happens

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I’m jealous in some aspects, but not for the most part. Well, there’s actually only one thing that I know of that I get jealous of. Everything else I’m pretty live and let live about.

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I’m not jealous at all because I try to be happy with what I have and I understand that this is not my fault if there are some things I cannot have.

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I’m not sure now because I rarely run into these kind of situations…but before I wouldn’t really get jealous but I would be aware of things. It really depends on the situation and who is involved. I study the situation and then see where or most likely the source came from.

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Lollll :joy::joy::joy: they look a lot better than me!

I don’t get jealous or envious, when I see something or someone thst has something is like to have I sometimes get disappointed in myself but never thought badly of someone thst has more

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I know someone like that. Crazy

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Lies.

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Maybe a little better, but not that much - not without the makeup, the artistry with the camera, the designer clothes. There is quite a bit of primping of the models by people who are well versed and professional at creating an alluring illusion of these models.

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I’m not really a jealous person by nature but because I’m human I guess I can become a bit envious from time to time but it’s rare.

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I used to have this weird problem where people would copy me too. I dont know if i would find it a pain in the neck today or not. What I found out, much later, is that it is one of two things that are closely related.

  1. they are bored. i accidently acted as a springboard for them. I caught their intetest, and they simply had nothing better to do. They saw what i was up to. they thought it was cool or intetesting. so they copied.

  2. It is a new situation or role for them. They had no idea how to act, respond, didn’t what to think or say. They just did not have a clue how to conduct their behavior because the situation was so new to them. so they copied.

if there is anything more to it than above, or if it is good or bad, i dont know. i feel pretty certain of why they did what they did though.

i was unaware it was jealously though. It is also a possible motive? I never considered it before. wow. i have no idea why those people would have ever of been jealous. i dont of myself as inspiring jealousy. i will have to take your word for it.

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macy it might be a good thing, you know they say that when couples happen…they end up becoming alike. This can be true in many ways, also ive seen it in male-male friends. study it a bit more if it happens again…

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will do. i hope it was friendly and not jealousy.

I get jealous in the sense that I have low self esteem and I act out but not exactly in a possessive way. I just sort of want to know that I’m important to people. I don’t mind people I care about having outside friends and such as long as I feel comfortable in the fact I’m important to them. I require a lot of reassurance and I know that is a problem. But when I get that reassurance, I don’t act out. I guess when I find something great I start going ‘why do I deserve something great’ and try to hold onto it too hard.

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