In regards to dating, how long after two people are “talking” in online dating when they should meet???
Because we’ve been talking like over a month and a half and it’s really great talking to her.
I don’t wanna say anything crazy, but this girl seems very ideal for me. But we have not met yet. So like I question if she’s too busy for a relationship anyways. But I really wanna make it work cuz I’ve never felt this way about a female person in my life.
But what do you guys think?? She’s not “playing” me I don’t think.
We have like 50 different dates planned of places we talked about going to but alas we’ve gone nowhere yet. What to think.
There was a bit I didn’t feel comfortable totally but now I do and I really wanna go for that hike.
When people have kids, they’re cautious to meet because they don’t want to introduce their kids to someone who might not be around after the first few visits, I think
Yeah I bet. It’s just she first said “we’d meet by the end of June”. Then she said early July she wouldn’t have her kids and we’d meet then. Then she said “this weekend”. But every week she’s doing something with her kids.
Well she said next weekend again. And I’m not a pushy person. I’m not worried about getting played. I think that’s a sign I like her enough. But I couldn’t imagine ever just stop talking to her.
Ask her if she’d like to go out to a specific date and state day and time. Like, would you like to meet in person for dinner Friday night at 7? Then if she says yes you can talk about which type of food and from there figure out the restaurant. If she can’t make that day and time ask her when is a better time for her. This way you get concrete plans to meet in person. My best friend does online dating and she does this all the time.
Normally Id say she didnt want to go out with you and is just being nice and stalling but if she has 2 kids that takes up a whole lot of time, so its probably just them being more important right now than dating. I think youre good
Id say dont ask her to go out anymore and just talk to her casually and normally. When shes ready shell come around, and shell appreciate that you didnt press her for the date
Thanks @zwolfgang I think that’s good advice. I sent her a text this morning she said. Good morning thanks for the compliment. So I complimented her again saying she deserved it! Lol!!
She has 2 kids and works full time with kids. I complimented her on that.
I just remembered when she sent me a picture and I told her to “smile”, she then sent me another one with her most unattractive smile she could do. Yeah I’ve proven she’s real I just forgot cuz it was a while ago.
