I was a bit interested in pick-up artistry back in the day, I saw videos on YouTube. And before you judge the videos I saw was not to trick women into sex or something like that, it was more about creating a better life for yourself to attract someone. I think pickup artists have gotten a bit of a bad reputation, as people think it’s about manipulation, and there may be some of that, cause I’m not aware of it all, but the things I watched was more on spirituality, psychology, and self improvement.
It was interesting delving into the psychology of the social communication between men and women. I learned a lot from this. There may be some pickup stuff that is centered around how to get someone to sleep with you, but that was not what I watched.
I think the early 00’s pick up thing was waaaay too complicated. I feel like overcomplicating things in general is detrimental for the thing you are trying to do.
Idk, I think game is overated. I believe you just need to look good and be open and willing to do whatever you want to do, mostly the case for sex.
Also, dressing like a rock star is a bit cringe lol
Oh and have any men here been randomly told mean things by women? There’s a evolutionary reason some women do that, like it or not. They are testing you to see how you respond, they want to find someone who is confident. They want to see if you are fragile or not. I have experienced this many times lol, It’s just how it is.
I have been told mean things by women a lot of times. Best thing you can do is to just stop talking to them in that moment. You can see their faces when you start vibing with another girl next to her. Best comeback possible.
Maybe it’s not for everyone. If you really want to attract a smart/good looking/funny/etc.etc person, you kind of need to be confident or funny, or good looking, or have other good qualities.
Especially good looking. Smart you won’t know, personally I don’t care. Fun is nice, I agree. But sometimes it’s just about clicking more than anything else.
I would suggest just to look good. It’s something you can improve instantly and in a couple of months. The rest of the traits are not important in picking up someone you don’t know.