Anybody here is a father or a mother?

25 years ago I dreamed of having children, but did not work out in that way. Most szs I know do not seem to have children.

Father of a thirteen year old girl.

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Nope.

I was lucky.

My partner and I do not have any children though she really wants kids. She said we better be trying to have a baby by time we’re thirty. I know she wants kids but I kind of don’t. I’m not exactly the most stable and mature individual.

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It was hard but we raised a 21 year old.
He’s come a long way but it’s a lifetime.
Most important thing you will do, if you can.

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I raised a daughter as a single parent. She is twenty two years old now.

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I didn’t think that I would be able to be a good father or raise a happy kid. I was wrong on both counts. You need to stop selling yourself short. Probably all kinds of things you could do if you’d let yourself believe it was possible.

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I have a 21 year old son, wanted to have three but we were only blessed with one.

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I have a 12 year old and an 8 year old. It is hard, being sick and raising kids. But I love them so much.

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I wish I was a father. I helped raise my kid sis and she’s pretty amazing. I’m lucky I get to be apart of my nieces and nephews life.

I’m only 30, so I still have time.

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Mom. Kids 10+13.

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Im not questioning my ability to have a kid or be a good parent, although if i were to consider it id second guess myself.

I just don’t want my child doing this at all, it’s terrible, it’s dangerous, it’s complete ■■■■ for most people. I feel like it’s a crime to put more people here actually, i feel that only an animal would reproduce. One way or the other my kid would get mangled, happens every time.

If my child was lucky enough to not die in some horrible way they’d grow and then whither slowly, they’d end up begging for their own death from the agony, i’ve seen it before.

It’s the perfect fit for me, im crazy but don’t want kids, it’s the perfect fit for me, no bad feelings about it as if i was not capable and i don’t feel ashamed in the least because if i was healthy i still wouldn’t have kids.

i have a 7 year old son

I have three sons. 26, 23 and 14. They went to private schools, tutoring, special classes if needed. Two are graduates with honors. Two sons have there own company, video and music production company. The 23 year is was two grades ahead when he went to school. My 14 year old is a football star at his school. I’m a Hispanic mother and I didn’t give up and there dad and I became real parents. I’m divorced but we all stick together as a family. We paid our own way, got loans and even made a living in art. All of us are very creative. We don’t give up. We believe in family and the arts. We believe in education, working hard and helping and sharing what we have. We are considered the minority and we came from poverish backgrounds, the kids dad and I

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I have paranoia sz

I have three kids, two boys and a girl