An encounter

I was sitting in the cafeteria minding my own business, and this woman came over and started talking to this gay guy and stuck her great big ass in my face, like I was supposed to start drooling with lust and immediately want to sex her down. It was disgusting. I sat there a minute and stood up and scraped my chair across the floor as I walked away. I could tell from her tone of voice that she was angry. She later became nice to me, but I can tell she is just waiting for a chance “to teach me something about women.”

I think it is really small minded to group all men into always wanting women and any woman. Woman can be just as harassing towards men as men can be towards woman though it goes very unnoticed

Right now I don’t want any woman, and I probably never will again. I’m too disgusted. They’re probably saying, “That’s a small loss”, but I don’t care. One way or another I am going to make them answer for their behavior towards me.

I feel so sorry for you @crimby!
From your descriptions it appears that you are facing constant severe sexual harassment.
You already have schizophrenia, and on top of that to have to deal with this
harassment is just awful!
If I could I would provide you a better deal.

Yea i see your anger but remember jot all woman are like that. I am a woman and I like to think I behave differently. A lot of woman can be rude or conceited or disgusting same thing as a lot of men can. But certain individuals will make the effort to get you on an individual level those people I think are gold regardless of gender. But thats just my take on it. Anyways just be true to yourself if you dont want to date any woman dont. Your freedom is your own!

She probably wasn’t harassing you @crimby.
It’s all in your head.

What I can’t understand is why they didn’t cut their losses in this situation a long time ago. Instead they pursued a totally immoral, totally unethical goal far beyond any rational need for it. It was all because “they were going to teach me something about women”. Yow, I learned a lot about women all right.

Maybe a lot about that particular woman. Also sometimes asking what someones intentions are helps. Ive dont that and avoided some things though it isnt always easy to do so. Or just walk away. People will be people sometimes its easier to forget and focus on a project thats what i do.

That’s just it. They’re doing all kinds of stuff like that, and then saying “it’s all in my head”. They are trying to break down my moral resistance and force me to engage in constant, unwanted homosexual sex. I hate a woman who focuses on some guy fighting to keep his head above water, and keeps shoving him under again and again until he comes up gay.

@crimby why don’t you talk to the manager of your assisted living center about this?
You may also try to look less attractive :wink:

Sounds like you are under more stress because your Medicare was revoked.
You may need a medication adjustment?
Maybe you can talk to your pdoc.


@crimby I think that you have a problem with oversensitivity.
It is difficult to push harassment claims if you are male.
It may be that someone is really harassing you, or it may be that that’s just your perception.
If you feel you can’t handle it, then seek a different living arrangement.

I would if I could. Maybe if I knocked my front teeth out. I am attractive. I say that without any pride because I believe it’s not how you look, but how you handle your looks that matter.

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you may try to use lipstick to color your lips to a white, if you have prominent large lips
it might help.
Something as simple as that may solve your harassment problem.

Nope. That’s not for me. I think I am going to knock my front teeth out.

don’t do that please :confounded:

I won’t do that, but I have a bridge in my front teeth that just might fall out naturally.

I agree with @Wave - it sounds like you’ve had a couple of very upsetting things happen that have put you under a lot of stress, and have very understandably led you to feel singled out and attacked in a lot of different ways.

This has got to be very stressful, so please make sure you talk to your doctor about what has happened and the things that you’re noticing now. A med tweak might make it easier to deal with the situation and get things settled.


Hi @crimby, I read a lot of your posts though I don’t answer most of them. And I give you “likes” sometimes.
You always seem lucid and I can relate to you as we are both older than most people on here. But I just want to say that I’ve seen some HUGE meltdowns on these forums of popular, stable posters who seemed to have a good grasp on reality. Until one certain situation puts them over the edge. I can think of two huge examples of this but I will keep their anonymity. I’ mean they had a good recovery, they tried to help other people. But l saw where they went wrong and I saw how they could have avoided it. I don’t want to see you go down that route. The tone of some of your statements reminds me of how those other people sounded on their way down.

I realize your situation is very stressful. But that just means you should get more help. I don’t really have a solution for you. I guess I am trying to raise your awareness. For some reason, going to church pops into my mind as a possible way to help yourself. I know it sounds weird but churches are usually peaceful environments, with people who have good intentions. And a good place to get support and help. But anyways, maybe that’s not feasible for you.

AA, CA, and NA did a lot more for me than helping me to stop smoking crack and drinking. I got to be around people 5 or 6 nights a week. I got to socialize. Nobody bugged me in those meetings and I got to meet interesting people and hear inspiring stories.

You need to de-stress. May be you should get a pad of paper and a pen and start writing down a plan to get past this mess you’re in. Write down the obstacles and write down possible solutions. Write down your options. IDK. Maybe this isn’t helping, I can’t really tell. But anyways, I wish you good luck. Maybe once you clear this hurdle in your life right know you will see peace and something positive on the other side.


@crimby From some of your posts, it sounds like you’re having a tough time right now. Can you contact your pdoc and let them know what’s going on? I’m wondering if maybe you need to adjust your meds a little. It’s worth discussing with your pdoc.

I hope you feel better soon. Take care!