Makes me feel like I’m annoying the person and the only one putting in effort in the friendship. I’m done putting in effort.
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Yeah, well,
That’s how you lose friends.
Either put in the effort or dont have any friends dude.
Ita not that hard.
I know what you feel like. I’ve ended up cutting a few people out of my life because I was always the one putting in the effort.
I don’t think the people in question even noticed though 
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You shouldn’t be the only one to put in the effort. That’s an unhealthy relationship
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Oh yah. Every relationship needs to be fifty fifty. It doesn’t work out if that balance is off.
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I’ve had that happen but I just stop messaging and don’t really think about it anymore. I have a few very good friends so that’s all I need.
((Hugs))
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Nah. It’s real life. You have to both work together to be in a successful relationship.
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Mmmmm …
Great minds think alike, but they also butt heads.
If a relationship is 50/50 like you said, there is bound to be arguing, bickering etc etc, resulting, in majority of cases, a loss of a relationship.
UNLESS,
They have something in common holding them together, I.e a child.
Well that depends on how you communicate for one.
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But back on topic,
If you’re the one messaging first, you either need to learn how to keep a conversation flowing or just be interesting to talk to.
Sorry, I says it like I sees it.
I’m sorry,
I have free rights, even on the internet.
You can choose to ignore my posts, my friend.
You can choose not to post on his.
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I can’t voice my opinion ?
Didn’t say that. I said maybe not comment on his if that is what he is requesting.
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You can call a mod and ask them to block me.
Grow up, maybe this is why you always message first
Sorry, not directed at you @anon78876561