Few days ago I tell her I don’t want to go on holiday as I been at the beginning of this month. I don’t need a holiday at the end of this month too. She doesn’t understand I don’t like it. She not getting the friggin message. Again she messages today saying she wants to go somewhere she wants to book but she feels bad if she don’t invite me. That’s. Is. It.
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I told had a few days ago that I don’t like going on too many holidays becuse then I don’t enjoy them. That’s not working. Saying I don’t have enough money isn’t working !
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Friendship is a give and take relationship like any other relationship and it sounds like it’s all one sided on her part taking and your the one always having to give in
It hard when they are your friend and don’t realize that they stepped over the line and are using you unintentionally or unknowingly
You must be a great traveling partner lol 
Just make a boundary and tell her you are only willing to go on so many holidays a year
You have told her a few times you need a break from that and her need for you to be with her is evidently over powering her to the point she isn’t considering you feelings about it. It bad when someone puts you in that predicament because it makes it like your the bad guy when your not.
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Hell she’s giving you an easy way to get out of going! Tell her to go ahead and go without you and tell her not feel bad about going without you and tell her you would love to go on vacation but not for a couple of months.
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