I havent been in an emotional relationship for over a year and now I just went on a date with a guy who says he likes me. He’s great, the date was nice but I felt awkward because I still dont know if I like him the same way.
Before now it was a lot of non emotional relationships and literally all about sex and immediate gratification, so this is weird for me.
A day before our date one of my old partners called me and asked if I wanted to hook up and I said no because I wanted to give this new relationship a try and not to start it off on the wrong foot. And yet I haven’t felt like i won the situation. I didnt hook up with my last partner but I still have a lot of sexual energy pent up and I dont want my new relationship to be based off of sex. I keep telling myself to ignore it but it’s not helping at all.
So after all that and you’re still reading my question is
What do I do with my sexual energy and how do I deal with it?
Well, if you are wanting your new relationship to matter, then it would be best to remain faithful and not hook up with your ex-partner. Save your sexual feelings for your new relationship. I know it might be hard, but if you hook up with your old partner, and your new partner finds out, then your new relationship will be oven. And seeing as your ex-partner just wants to be with you for sex, you won’t get a relationship from them either.
So how do I let go of my sexual energy? I dont want to screw up my new relationship?
I take meds it gets rid of sexual energy. I’m guessing you do to. Other than that you can try masturbation it always worked for me, except when I was off meds had too much energy that masturbating wasn’t enough.
Anyone who speaks to you for such selfish reasons doesn’t even deserve your attention
You could, er, just “double-click your mouse” a few times.
I dont take those kinds of meds. And I dont know where I can get them or what they are called. Masterbation helps a bit but not nearly enough
That’s really how our relationship worked tho. There was mutual attraction but that was it. We weren’t friends or anything so we basically just used each other. This new relationship I dont want like that, i want it to be real and to have more substance
Then youve got to save your attraction for later. Ita the only way.
Self-service is safe and effective. 
I like the advice here 
It’s not the same… Its much more pleasant when you’re in two… Find a way girl to do it, convince your actual bf, oral is good if he’s into it. Use protection
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