You guys were right!

[Juliesftw]

Not only were you right but other forums were right too.

Yesterday this cam girl trashed me because I ran out of money

she treated me like the last five months didn’t matter

she treated me like I was nothing to her

once my money ran out.

She never loved me or cared about me.

My therapist and mom were also right.

My mom said cam girl I was giving money too was a stupid people.

My therapist said girls online will say or do anything for cash.

The people that are truly love and care for me are right infront of my face.

even the cashier at the local store told me don’t give your money to scammers like her.

she actually looked out for me and she’s a total stranger we dont’ have realtionship at all

I had more of a relationship with the cam girl then I did the cashier and the cashier gave actually cared more about me than the cam girl and the cam girl was getting a lot of money from me.

I never gave the cashier anything and she actually showed more love and care and compassion then the cam girl ever did.

I should listen to people who actually see me in person than online personas.

It’s all a money making scheme

Lesson learned. Listen to my therapist mom and random women who actually give a damn

[Jonathan2]

You should ask your money back!

See how she responds.

[GrayBear]

I am glad you learned your lesson.

[Kxev]

I hope you remember this and break your habit of going to those sites.
It really sucks but theres a ton of scamming going on.

[Jonathan2]

Also, I would be vindictive and report her to the police for scamming.

[anon4362788]

For scamming? Being a cam girl is a jpb. It isn’t a scam. They perform acts on camera for money. Guys ask to see things, pay, and the girls do it. Or they’re already performing and the guys tip.

Sex work is still work. It is the guys fault that they fall into believing it’s a relationship not business.

[Kxev]

Reframing it - changes everything. @anon4362788

[anon4362788]

Yeah, ot does. Because guys complain, but they’re the ones that get creepy and try to make a business transaction into a relationship.

Now if this was some rando on FB messenger, it be different. But cam girls get paid for a service.

[Jonnybegood]

If I gave someone money and they give me back my desired video. I have no complaints ever. This happened recently. Now I don’t know how to get rid of her I get sick of her. Always stupid me. Nah I like this girl but it’s just….idk.

I agree with ZombieMombie , although all the cat fishing from (Nigeria often) is wrong and in theory should be stopped. But idk how you stop it anyways. It gives a whole country a bad name and I don’t understand it.

But if the girl is real and is making custom videos. Or goes on FaceTime. I can’t complain bout that. But usually they’re the ones who get attached I get sick of myself (and them) and they wanna get married in august. But it’s rare they’re real anyways but w.e

Sometimes I wonder if I could find better ways to waste my money to get off. Porn is free after all.

Sometimes I befriend the Nigerians and they don’t ask for money, admit they’re just catfishing but wanna be friends cuz I’m so frickin cool lol but then they listened to my SoundCloud and it shows up as recent listens from Nigeria

[anon55031185]

I think it’s just called “spending your money on things that you can’t afford” not “being scammed”.

[Daze]

yeah. totally. I’ve learned and gotten so much more in person.
so, is this done now with her,
I mean, are you Really done/

[Juliesftw]

She took me off site and asked for money off the site. Like we were really something. But only time she hit me up was to ask for more cash. I thought i was safe cause she came on cam but shes not. She smiled in my face pretending to be something shes not. Not i gotta watch out for the ones who come on cam not just people who send me pics

[Daze]

I don’t do video or audio chat anywhere,
but it was big during Rona.
hope you didn’t lose too much money.

[Juliesftw]

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