Would you date someone shorter than you ....?

On the program we were watching together it came up that the guy was looking for a shorter girl and the girls wanted to be with taller guys … its sounds very superficial …

But i think I wouldn’t be able to date anyone significantly shorter, not because there would be any flaw on them… but my own insecurity … which is sad i guess… but i already am a tiny 2mm taller than my partner so I can’t wear heels…

Which doesn’t matter as I don’t like heels lol

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My uncle is shorter than his wife, his son is a surgeon.

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I’m 6.1 and would date a shorter woman, actually would prefer to but would date a taller woman to,

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I guess at the end of the day … it later all comes down to chemistry as well … i mean I also had other preferences as well like he should be able to speak some indian language to communicate with my family but at the end of the day we will live togerher not my family as well

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I’ve dated several guys shorter than me,

A couple by a good bit.

My sister is 6’1" so most the people she dates are shorter than her too.

Totally normal.

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I don’t think much about their height. it is mostly how they act and look,yes the attraction has to be there, but height is at the bottom of the list

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I don’t care about that kind of things,I like the not very handsome boys,I feel better with normal boys

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I’ve always struggled with the attraction part… i never feel instant attraction it comes with the time of getting to knlw someone… it is a little hard to explain…

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There is probably something biological in it, like taller men have a better chance of protecting women. I don’t see anything wrong that we have preferences.

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I’m not saying he has to be taller but not too much shorter and also not too much taller . I dont kblw its more of a psychological thing

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I’m 4’11. One of the cutest dudes I ever saw in college was shorter than me. Height is only an obstacle for me if the difference in it makes basic affection, like kisses, physically awkward to the point I would need like a stool or something to stand on or vice versa for them.

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I’m 5’10, my wife is 5’2. I called her Frodo once, which was a mistake. That chick can punch harder than George Foreman.

:grin:

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The question is if you would have children with a short partner

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We’re you watching Indian Matchmaking? I watched all the episodes. Some of them were very superficial. I forget her name, but one of the women was super arrogant and power hungry. I didn’t like her at all.

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I’m 5’2" I’ve never met a man shorter then me other than a little person which I had no attraction to.

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I’m also between 5 "2 and 5"3 but I find Asians are generally shorter side

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That wouldn’t even be part of the issue im doubtful I even want children aha

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aparna was her name… i agree…
I have been watching it and its incredibly disturbing to me , but to be honest I feel its showing reality and rather than saying we don’t want that on our screens because its showing a bad side of our society , its better to say yes we don’t like what we see so let’s be part of the change

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my favourite was vysar the guy whose dad went to prison he is so honest and sweet and such a geek

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I agree! I think he’s a great guy.

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