Why is it that

When you are in love or infatuated but then the man falls for another lady, then you are not interested anymore? (in some cases)

It is like romance is sometimes only gonna work if it is just 2 ppl in love?

I find that strange cos it is like interesting to me.

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I think a romance implies that two people have feelings for each others.

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I looked up the word. It has 3 meanings in this sense.

ro·mance

(rō-măns′, rō′măns′)

n.

1.

a. A love affair: His romance with her lasted only a month.

b. Ardent emotional attachment or involvement between people; love: They kept the romance alive in their marriage for 35 years.

c. A strong, sometimes short-lived attachment, fascination, or enthusiasm for something: a childhood romance with the sea.

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I think love is an agreement. It’s a partnership. There is a beginning phase where you kinda say… Hey wanna be partners? And so we open up. Then the two people decide. If one says no the healthy thing to do would probably be to close the offer, or being open to them romantically.