I don’t know. For me it’s just about being comfortable. Comfortable enough to be myself around them. I haven’t quite got there with him, but I see myself almost there… 
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It sounds like you might have found yourself a winner. I’m happy for you.
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I’m having a hard time falling in love lately. i don’t know if i need it. if i really like a person it can be a partnership.
i broke it off with the last girl i actually liked because she drank too much. at that point in my life i was just getting out of college and needing to sober up, she was still having a ball. she contacted me a couple years later and i asked her if she wanted to move to Washington with me, she said no. lol
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I’m on my second marriage. Don’t trust your heart with anyone unless you are prepared mentally for it. Marriage has many ups and downs…spouse’s needs change. Marriage is a work in progress especially if mentally ill. Unfortunately I now play a codependent type role due to illness which has caused us to be more father daughter sometimes. He sees when I’m starting to fall and sometimes I’m too stubborn to let him catch me. Sometimes, he makes statements that really hurt. Are you ready for happiness, pain, understanding and intimacy? Really think it through…maybe a winner, but your health comes first. Good luck and best wishes!
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Love is the intense feeling of bond between parties. E.g. marriage bond and the love.
–defined by me
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Marriage is about your vows; read them
damn wish i had a loving partner, best of luck with your relationship ish x
that was the weirdest thing ever. i went to subway and she walked in right behind me. she still lives in town. i didn’t say anything and neither did she. i put my hood up and chuckled. i was just talking about her what a coincidence.
guys i don’t sleep around much, that’s awkward.
Good luck!
Philosophers and theologians, and lovers have debated that for centuries. When you get a good answer, let me know.
i agree @anon80629714 a best friend you can be yourself around. sounds promising.
i’ll tell you when i find out, if i will ever find out lol
you cant love a friend completely, more than friends would do that lol
That blows donkey balls, but prolly for best. Getting your heart trampled on is rough for a guy or girl
Put yourself in situations where you can meet others. Be active in life. Let your personality shine through. Would encourage you to resist the romantic notion that there is only one perfect mate in the world for you. There are many wonderful women out there. I tend to put emphasis on compatibility vice just getting hormones stirred up.
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As someone married 19 years . Love is an action and a decision to me. All those fuzzy feelings will be challenged at some point and not hold up unless you have made a lifetime commitment. But being completely comfortable with that person is a great starting Point. Best wishes @anon80629714
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well @asgoodasitgets it might be more than just a best friend but i think being a best friend is key. being there for each other thru the good and bad times. my husband and i were together 26 years.
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when you like someone sooo much then you are in love 
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yeah i agree like them so much that you love them @asgoodasitgets
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