They don’t tell me they’re mad. I guess they don’t act particularly angry with me. A part of me just knows they’re mad at me. I always ask and they say no, but i can’t shake it. Thoughts?
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I don’t know the answer to that one. In some situations it would be polite, but unnecessary. In others it could be really important to say something. I know someone irl who never apologise and it doesn’t suit her very well. The best outcome for someone worrying about this would be to apologise but try not to make themselves feel terrible about it.
I had similar problems concerning my emotional reaction to others expressing negative opinions about me.
It took what seemed like forever and ever for me to finally not give a fark about what other thought about me.
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I think it’s a paranoia thing I used to get it slot. I started to call people up to find out if they were mad. They never were mad. I learned it was just my feelings. So sometimes it still happens and I run it by my wife. She usually says it’s nothing so I ignore it. Or why don’t you call them and ask and it turns out to be nothing or we very rarely resolve the problem and it’s over. But don’t let it eat at you talk to someone.
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Also feel people are mad at me too. I have people yelling and shouting at me. Had one guy swear at me while I was walking on the street. But these people are strangers and I don’t know why they do this.
This has been going on for 10 years. It makes me anxious and paranoid.
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People get mad. Maybe it’s not you they’re mad at…and they’re just mad in general? And they’re taking they’re anger out on you unintentionally and you shouldn’t take it personally
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You might be a little insecure. Try not to worry so much about what others think.
I do the same thing, not sure why I think that way, probably paranoid combined with negative thoughts.
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I mean, the voices are always telling me everyone’s mad at me, no one wants me here, no one loves me, ect. I suppose i have just started to believe it. 
I feel like it’s the illness. It’s always the warning sign for me I’m about to go into an episode when I start interpreting people’s behaviors as being mad at me or hating me.
Unfortunately I’ve been experiencing this recently. Agh.
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I understand that, I do exactly the same, Oh and I’m not mad at you, what you might start doing is verify stuff, ask a few close friends how they feel about you, might ease your thoughts a bit.
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I feel that way too most of the time, I always hear my mom sighing alot, and I think it’s because shes annoyed by me, or mad at me, but it’s probably just her own problems that she’s sighing about, so don’t worry about it to much
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I don’t know. I just work, and I research, and I study, right, make, solve problems, solve business problems, solve market problems…work work work.
If anyone has a problem, then it need to be objective like something health wise, ideological wise, or something else practical, or I will not acknowledge their problems. I just am not anywhere with anyone that is not a benefit to my overall life’s program. As soon as I see there is no interest there for me or productive benefit for me or for anyone that I can be apart of without regretting, I’m off to get busy. There’s always something that needs to get done, be thought of, or to learn about. No time to waste.
Otherwise I’m like you, and I just think about how people don’t like me, how craptpy they make me feel, and it’s never something I want to be feeling, and they could care less if I feel, feel uncomfortable or whether I’m hurt. I cannot depend. I will become depended on, but I will not place my life in a position where I depend on anyone’s say or opinion on anything ever again. It’s just not the way to be an adult. When I was at my parents’ table for the for the bones and the home, what was thought I had to pay careful attention to. Now I just follow God’s word without expecting any voice from God at all, and I stay on the right, healthy, legal, hardworking track. I am committed to community, development, money, and love in the most Christian sense of the concept.
But as far as people now go…unless I’m showing nice cars, nice homes, and taking people out and on nice trips, they just don’t care. My family and all of my friends from when I was young do not care either. They just won’t talk to me, and my father and brother have outright rejected me.
People don’t care about me. They just do not care, and I learned to work on getting wealthy and wise, healthy and connected online, or I was always going to be the “that POS doesn’t matter ball” to people they can toss around like a game no matter where I go. Ugh! Can’t be having that all my life.
I work so hard, and I research, learn, and solve so many things that no one calls me lazy or stupid. I fit in a professional environment where people are about objective and critical thinking aptness that one can contribute to a project, and nothing ever less than that. I have found that in my life I’m literally not likable for anything other than that.
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