I’m talking about the “feeling” iv never been in love many because I’m afraid of it . definitely a buckelist type of thing it’s one of those things you can’t force it just happens
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Imo, it only happens once.
Every other time it’s a facade.
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I did once but I was on Piracetam, so it seemed kind of forced.
Made a mess of things. Wouldn’t recommend.
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I’ve fallen in love a few times. Once with a man who regularly beat and raped me. We divorced.
Once with a female dry drunk who went back to drinking beer and subsequently left me
And once with a fickle bipolar female who promptly fell out of love with me the minute I fell in love with her.
But again, I’m not telling their sides of the story either.
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Several times. But not in a long while.
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A couple of times, was a long time ago, quit dating after the last one.
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I fell in love with my ex wife but honestly I don’t know if she ever loved me.
She ended up cheating, stealing and physically assaulting me.
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I fell in love with my husband. Still love him.
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Good God. I can’t even maintain any human relationship. Loving relationships? That would actually be impossible.
However I don’t hate concept of love, and I’m a huge sucker for good romance TV shows.
One thing I’ve noticed over the years that digital communities is little bit easier. When I can communicate with others, I’d choose the safer route and I’d stay online instead.
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I’ll tell you the way it was with me. I’ve heard a couple of other guys say it was the same with them. When I was a preadolescent I would develop the most intense crushes on girls. One lasted three years. The others lasted a couple of years. It was a total obsession. One time I went swimming, and afterwards I was surprised to realize I hadn’t thought about this girl for thirty minutes. One guy on this site said he experienced the same thing. A guy in drug and alcohol treatment talked about it. The obsessions went away when I reached puberty. Since then I’ve only had brief infatuations. I wonder what a psychiatrist would say about these crushes.
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I’ve been infatuated, I don’t know if I’ve ever genuinely been in love. I went through a time of rejection though, it wasn’t the best experience, that sort of led up to psychosis, it’ll teach you a lot though, good and bad. It may be a good thing that you’ve never given someone to much time and energy because it can drain you, I wouldn’t totally be against it though, just make sure the chemistry and loyalty is there first.
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With my husband. Still going strong.
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I’ve felt it and it just doesn’t keep going…there’s a limit high and the only way is down.
I had a better love life at 6 years old than i do now. Siìiììiiìiiigh
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Gladly since meds I love a bit more reasonably. Before the meds it was erotomania and a lot of fantasy. I’m glad to have decent relationships with women since.
My current life isn’t too bad but it’s not really relationship materiel. I’m not too concerned by that. I’m getting old and have different priorities!
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I fall in love too easy… it’s a strange world that love is.
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I’ve fallen in lust a few times but I never got to know anybody well enough to fall in love.
I fell in love with Fernando. I still think about him having not seen him in 20+ years
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İ fall in love Three times.one of them was platonic. Another times got date couple of time and broken. With third times İ got married . Fall in love has great feeling .but its a teenager situation i think. İ don t have any kind of feelling since i was teenager.
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Only once…maybe two
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