Whenever i watch porn which i now avoid, i feel like everyone knows im watching it

always have this sense with me. I try now to avoid porn

Thoughts?

I sense a disturbance in the force…crsaen is watching porn again!! My stars!!

Kidding of course. No one cares what you’re watching, trust me. It’s your illness.

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Personally, if I watch very much porn I start to desensitize to it. I’ve known guys who were addicted to porn, though. As for porn objectifying women, if you see some of the literature of young males before the rise of porn, women were pretty objectified then.

Why do i hear changes in the environment whenever i play a clip, like i could hear steps on next floor, cars outside whenever i start the clip. Its like the universe knows im playing it

Perhaps its just me and not the porn

It cant be all coincidences, can it?

Nah it’s just you. Why the heck would everyone take busy time out of their schedules to care about you watching porn. It’s not a crime, and it’s such a standard past time of guys that even if everyone did know, who would care??

I think you need to think more about why watching porn makes you feel embarassed and self-conscious, because it’s these feelings that are being amplified by your psychosis to make it seem like everyone’s watching you, so to speak.

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Dude I talk my myself and ■■■■ when I watch porn it’s hell. I just get off and get the ■■■■ out of that psychotic situation.

My shrink says it’s due to a catholic upbringing.

My shrink said to put tape over the camera on my phone if it’s that bad. So I do. But they can hear me breathing.

Welcome to the pumpkin patch in Halloween town. I’m Jack.

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But I still watch porn, especially if I have insomnia. I just had a breakup so now I will be dating my left hand for Thor knows how long.

That’s classic paranoia, you feel like you are constantly being watched.

Ughh I hate it when a guy’s first exposure to sex is through porn. It’s so unrealistic and makes guys get all these dumb ideas…

I’m still a believer that there should be educational “porn” showed in schools with the sex ed unit. To show kids realistic sex. Because they never actually show what it looks like, just diagrams and whatnot, so then kids look up porn because they’re curious…instant fake ideas. Same way Disney messes you up about what love and relationships are really like lol.

I agree that porn isn’t the birthplace of objectification, that’s been going on since FOREVER. It’s more the unrealistic portrayal of sex being presented to impressionable viewers that perturbs me.

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That’s why I stick with realistic porn. I’ve replicated pornos in real life and it was great! One time even went against my own superego because this girl wanted me to.

I mean porn can be utterly garbage I pick through pornos and actresses very selectively.

And yeah, I only really learned about female parts from literally shoving them in my face.

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I want to post links to porn.

Hahahaha that last part made me chuckle.

What is realistic porn?! I haven’t heard of this! I know there’s that stuff where people literally post vids of themselves having sex and they aren’t porn stars or anything. That’s occasionally amusing and of course nowhere near as exciting as all that flashy stuff…but still it’s reality!! (Yes I watch porn on occasion ok?! It…amuses me…seriously I’ve died laughing at some of the lines…and the set ups…oh god sometimes I literally just watch them for the set ups…)

I learned way too much about genitals through my various biology class. Even in neurobio we ended up going through it in detail…

Just look at POV porn. That means the guy is holding the camera himself. Can’t pull off crazy ■■■■■■■■ while keeping one hand steady. I’m one step away from telling you the name and site of the last porno I liked.

Or you can just learn through practicum.

POV?! The last thing I want is to be virtually screwing a woman as a man!! Pahaha dear god flashback to some really weird dreams of mine. And anyways that doesn’t make it more realistic, just makes it seem like you’re more involved I guess.

I remember seeing that option and being like “I wonder if there’s girl POV…hmmm” Pornhub has a “for women” tab but that’s just trash in my opinion. All for women means is they actually use an attractive guy for once LOL.

Porn seems to come up on this website a lot…not as though most people discuss it in real life casually though haha.

Try xart. It’s like really high quality. Sort of mind blowing. But my kind of girl is too punky looking for something that classy. I like emo girls. Agh it’s an issue. I’m attracted to that which appears to be ■■■■■■ up. If I weren’t buff as ■■■■ people would say I’m emo. I dress all black every day.

Two years about, no porn.

Of course people never believe me when i say it. They act like it’s some completely impossible thing to do.