I wonder if i would push away a lover?

just like the rest! it’s good for a bit, but then i don’t want it anymore, then all good things must come to end and another few years single before feeling love again.

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being in a relationship has its perks. Theres nothing like the infatuation phase haha feel like you’re on cloud 9

Some people love the chase and self saboutage. It takes all sorts but as a single man I’m always open for relationships even if they aren’t always on the cards. I suppose it depends on how you look at it…you get into one and it’s for a month…wasn’t that a good month?

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I need to be happy with my body even if a man prefers wide hips. I need to think well my body is amazing too!

Everyone woman I’ve dated in the past has had some complaint about her body, I’ve heard all kinds of odd complaints, things that I was fine with and hadn’t even considered. If the guy doesn’t care neither should you. But I guess maybe that comes from society elevating unattainable levels of beauty in the media whicih makes many women feel bad about themselves sometimes.

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Every woman is beautiful in my eyes.

That is the perception I’m trying to achieve.

:relaxed:

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I met a women about 5 years ago, she was willing to date me even though I had schizophrenia but she was immature, we had nothing in common and I wasn’t really attracted to her. If it isn’t right, I think it’s better to be single.

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I don’t think that is necessarily true, even if it is a nice thing to think if might be a bit delusional (But not in a psychotic way) . For example “symmetry” is usually an indicator of beauty, if you have someone with an asymmetrical face most people consider them as physically ugly, even if they are a great person. I have my preferences too. I’ve always been partial to brunettes, I’ve fooled around with blondes and red heads but it didn’t really do anything for me and it didn’t last, I just didn’t find them attractive physically, but they were not bad people. There are some common denominators to beauty but beauty is also in the eye of the beholder…

I’ve heard so many things from women in the past “My arms are too hairy”, “My forehead is too big”, “My butt is too fat”, “My boobs are too small” and on and on it goes.No one is perfect, and I didn’t really care about any of that, I still found them attractive. To quote Scotty from Star Trek " Laddie , every woman has her own charm. You just have to know where to look for her."

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Big thick daddy’s girl or skinny wel adjusted

Pick your fighter :cowboy_hat_face:

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I like to believe personality paints the physical look. That’s what I’m aiming for. I just get very sensitive to people thinking I’m ugly physically, sometimes. That’s why I’m aiming to believe the above… :relaxed:

Thankyou for sharing your idea I like hearing others views on beauty.

I did do a thread on it in the past.

Idk maybe I’m being delusional?

But who said I can’t be if it makes me happy.

ok maybe there is truth to what you say about some people being being more physically attractive than others but to me it is not of huge importance.

having said that seeing a handsome guy is very appealing to the eyes!! :relaxed:

I think that is a more common sentiment among women than men, women do appreciate a good looking man but it’s not their top priority, typically women are attracted to alpha male characteristics, I’ve seen some ugly dudes with some beautiful women… Men tend to be a little more superficial sometimes and are attracted to beauty.

Of course everyone is different, people compromise, there is instinct vs learned behaviour so it gets complicated. For example I may instinctively be attracted to a very beautiful woman but then I get to know her and learn she is a bitchy airhead and I lose interest.

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