well i woke up hoping to do some coding. but not feeling good. i wish i was the type of man who didn’t let other people’s words get to him. i’m good at avoiding people who affect me though. my MI makes me over-think things sometimes, which is not healthy and is a waste of time.
i hate when other people affect my life. but i just have to be more careful and avoid those types of people i guess. if i was being paid to listen to them, then i wouldn’t care. but i hate the feeling of being spat on
I can usually just let other people’s comments roll off my back, but every once in a while someone can find a chink in my armor. It helps if you can look at other people’s expectations as being unreasonable.
thanks crimby.
we men are usually alone most of the time, so words can get to us sometimes. but we always manage to brush it off, even when we’re alone. that’s something to be proud of. not many people can do that.
I know the feeling sirboring. Over thinking things and dwelling on negative comments can get to me too. I hope you feel better soon.
Been there. Many times. I try so hard to be kind to people that when someone ripped me deliberately (which happened frequently), it really hurt and my brain would spin trying to reconcile it.
Why are people so damn mean? Oh ya…that’s right. They got their own problems. Well, your own pain is never an excuse to abuse others. I wish the world would get that.
Sorry you’re distracted and hope it goes away soon.
comments usually don’t affect me though because i’m good at avoiding posts and posters that seem to try to antagonize me or make me over-think things. it’s just that i slipped up and decided to read a reply from someone i know not to read replies from. it’s because i thought the post would be helpful. maybe it was but i mis-interpreted it.
but yeah, i just got to be more careful. just got to keep avoiding 50% of the world, even though there are good people in that 50%. i don’t like when avoidable things affect the way i live and slow me down like this.