I feel very dislikable

I feel like people almost everywhere dislike me.

Not matter whether in real life, or on social media, or here.

I don’t know, my pdoc says it’s depressive thinking. ((She says it’s kind of impossible to be disliked by everyone))

But I can’t help myself. It feels like this non stop.

Mostly when I get to know new people, at the beginning I have this thought “they will think I am stupid/lazy/insane or whatever”

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Yeah me too I just have horrible character

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I just feel weird whenever I go to an event I apear weird and like idiot :rofl:

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Literally same :smiley: :frowning:

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Eventually is something wrong with your feeling ?

I don’t know.
Before illness I never thought that I am very unlikable.
Maybe I am really totally unlikable now.
I simply don’t know how to answer this question

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I sometimes feel like a misfit around people. I’m a serious introvert so I’m very quiet around others, I think some people think that’s weird :thinking:

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I think it is kind of depressive thinking. I just came out of depression and I had the same feeling for 3 years, that nobody liked me. I think it has something to do with the pessimistic thinks and the low self esteem that often go together with depression.
I don’t know if it counts for anything, but I like your posts on here :slight_smile:

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Introverts are not weird!! I accept them as any other kind of people :slight_smile: you shouldn’t worry

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This is really strange… I remember I thought depression is a way different thing than it actualy is.

During mental scaning (those tests) psychologist said I have medium depression. But mine is a strange one. I do everything as a non depressed person, but sometimes I have these mental breakdowns or my head feels like everything is truly fu****. Like, that I have no hope…

And glad you like it!! Idk I try to be positive here, show a better side of my life. But at some moments I write here very pessimistic, not interesting things. Like this one
:pray: thanks

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i used to be think like that now i don t.i m not sure if its something that i changed from my medicine or diet but i feel like super right now.i will not publish at here my changes because it can be misinterpreted by someone

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The Internet can be a bit s h I t because you get all sorts of ppl. Some who are just way negative at you and you’re meant to be OK with it, no thankyou. Best to ignore people who have nothing supportive to say and are full of crap.

Let them learn by themselves their unacceptable behaviour instead of leeching off me through my interaction with them.

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Agree. The same is with real people… some are freaking arrogant, egoistic or simple rude to everyone without any clear reason.
They simply hate being normal?.. :smiley:
Because me, personally, I try to be friendly with everyone I meet in real life. Even though, maybe there are some reasons to dislike em’.

And some people are doing their best to be total asoles :slight_smile:

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Lol yea some people are incredibly skilled at this :nerd_face:

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and probably most of those which are very rude on web are simply unhappy in real life…
otherwise I cannot found any good reason to say rude things online. Like, what it will change? Even if you will write the most meaningful rude text to someone, it won’t change anything.

I noticed that women can be rude to more “pretty” (by social standards) women. This actually happens very often… :confused:
Or a men to a richer men. Well, people are mostly angry on FB or IG when they are jealous, angry or in rare moments, when they have clear, justified reasons behind it.

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yuuuup :smiley: haha 15

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People’s feelings or whether they like you has everything to do with them and very little or nothing to do with you. They have lives apart from you. I think you should think less of how they feel about you and more of how you feel about yourself. Do you like yourself? If yes then nothing else matters.

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I don’t feel dislikable but the actions of others suggests otherwise. I never really had this problem before psychosis.

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Here’s a (((hug))) for you then.

:heart:

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