what would be your most fulfilling life? any ideas?
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where i would be fully in control of my eating habits and have irl friends
and recovered….
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I’d say the life I’m living now.
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it’s nice you’ve realized this. i am still struggling at what i want.
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sounds good. a healthy relationship with food, good friends, peace of mind through recovery.
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Fix my frame of mind and center, then some e-commerce stuff for 7 hours a day, and some pet projects the rest of the day. When I feel freer, replace the pet project stuff with socializing and find a girlfriend to wife. Buy a house and car. Have kids. More projects. Fill up the life with activity. You know how it goes.
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I was fulfilled in my 20s.
Friends, jobs, girlfriends. Whatever I wanted.
I think the people that you know/hang around with make you fulfilled.
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i know i want a house. a condo would be preferable if i could afford it for maintanance reasons. i want to be able to get by without a car and be able to freely ride my bicycle. i guess i want to max out an ABLE account which means stable employment, but work does not fulfill me, it’s left me with a bitter feeling, like i was never appreciated and replaceable. i want a loyal employer i guess. a girlfriend or wife would be good but i don’t want kids. good music helps fill the lull time. physical and mental health are aspirations of mine sometimes and a long life. im still not sure though if things will be bring me fulfillment. i want to travel when possible as this seems to be the only time i feel alive when im out living on a whim. and also i would like to spend less time on the internet and more time living the ups and downs of life. i have been very sedentary the last 4 years, and i get a little dissatisfied. also maybe someday i will get past the negatives and finally master an instrument or at least learn a few songs on the guitar.
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You are the personality of the 5 people you hang around most. But you should also learn how to like yourself in private. That is how most of life is.
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yeah good company helps. i never realized how good i had it when i was in my 20’s. i didnt have a care in the world for better or worse.
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i think i would also like to complete an education some day just for my own pride, but it’s a little late in the game to make much of a career. if money allows and i have enough free time to study, making the grade provides short term satisfaction.
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Just find out your comfort zone and push out of it slowly. Or quickly. You know your tolerance.
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i also hope i can develop a stronger relationship with my brother and sisters as we are all distant right now living our lives. or in my case barely living a life. i hope to be closer to them when im older.
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Community college extension courses is a great, quick, inexpensive way to acquire new skills. You don’t have to do the whole degree thing. Check your local cc extension guide, you might find something that interests you. I did before the shutdown, I’ll have to wait til the school reopens
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To seek Asylum in the EU.
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I would love to have unlimited money and to own very little. I would travel around from hotel to hotel and stay as long as I was enjoying myself. I would take in the nature of various locations and I would play the slot machines at the casinos and enjoy all the high quality vegetarian restaurants I could find. I would make sure my kids had a house and cars and I would come visit them often to play with the grandkids. I would donate tons of money to charity and would hand out money to the homeless.
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I want a house in Vermont and a wife, 5 sons – a car collection, I’d be an engineer and an astronomer, a guest house with ATVs on a lake…
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I was also fulfilled until I had 21 y.o. at my diagnosis and first psychosis.
Tons of friends, work with my degree, a gf and a university degree with lots of money.
Did you ever get your life back?
I didn’t and I am now 30 y.o.
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I have a different life now. I’m mostly content. You have to accept your limitations and make the best of what you have.
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The life I will lead after we win a big lotto prize.
JK I have a very nice life now. Since we moved into our new manufactured home a few years ago.
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