What to say to a girl?

Any advice on talking to a girl online? I think maybe I’m not interesting… What do the ladies like and do u guys have any jokes I could use ?

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Be friendly. Ask her questions about herself. Avoid being rude or an as*hole.

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Things you have in common - food, cooking, cars, pets, etc.

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Be the best version of yourself, but keep it lighthearted.

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Men who take a genuine interest in them as a person.

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Good manners and compliments

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Try and keep the conversation going… ask her questions about herself… then hopefully she will ask you about yourself…

Idk, good conversation is hard to come by I feel like…

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Yea… it’s hard to connect with people sometimes. I try to talk but it just feels like I always take it to the wrong place lol I meet a girl from Africa and we talked for a long time about all kinds of stuff … Really connection is rare…at least in my experience

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Just be genuine, when you’re dealing with people online it’s important to be polite. Save the swear words or sexual humor for another day for someone else (if that is your goto). Like @shutterbug said if you aren’t genuinely interested in her and her well being and moreso yourself it may come on a little too strong. But don’t stress! These people are there to get to know people and they may brush you off but don’t let that discourage you or may you think less of yourself. Just be glad you found more characteristics that are your type from this person and move on.

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Connection is rare. So don’t force anything… if you aren’t feeling it, you aren’t feeling it

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I took a break from dating, first I need to go off meds, go back to university, get a good job and have a good amount of money. Myself comes first.

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I was up front about being on disability and I got to meet women who were also on disability. it came up almost immediately after I told them I was on disability that I was sz. most left…my wife understood and we met and lived together ever since…respect a woman…don’t use her for sex. and you’ll get laid all the time…haha

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Right on jukebox!!! Good to hear you found love btw.

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How old are u ? If u dont mind me asking

I am 33 y.o.

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Oh wow…we are close to the same age. I will be 36 in January!!! It’s been 2 years since I had a girl and this is the first time in 12 years I’ve been single. Really wanting a companion :man_shrugging:t5:

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Btw what does 1%5 mean?

You need to post 15 characters, if not you cant post, its nothing

I had a gf for 5 years but brokeup in 2016. We met in a nightclub. Single since then but haven’t put effort in dating.

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Start by asking her name followed by a compliment maybe on her hair or eyes or something.