I’m really shy around women and have trouble talking to women. I have no women friends 
s0… What’s good way to start conversations with women and keep conversations going?
I need a ■■■■ load of women friends so I can get a gf
Women are just humans who have aspirations , frustrations, everyday needs and enjoyment. They are not mysterious. When you view women as your sisters you can be at ease with them and talk to them.
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secrets are to be sold not told. There has to be questions. To keep conversations going. Ask her what she is passionate about. What gets her emotions stirred. Thoughtfulness, lack of self importance, confidence. I found that approaching women in an intelligent fashion, ask her whats her story, or whats her stance on this or that. Good luck getting a gf. Its hard with sz, but hey sometimes you get lucky lol
Don’t focus so much on getting a girlfriend. If it happens, it happens. Build relationships first. Make sure they are capable of handling your needs and vice versa.
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My girlfriend and I started out purely as friends with NO intention of letting this fun plutonic friendship get complicated…
We’ve had a great 7 months of just being buddies. But then recently, things started happening and faster then we expected… the plutonic part has become more romantic and now… it’s in the stages of becoming official. I’ve met her parents… she’s going to be meeting mine.
Yes… she knows full well I’m Sz. She helped talk me down a few months ago when my wheels were coming off and she’s was just as cool and supportive afterwards… didn’t freak her out, didn’t scare her off.
Well, for starters, don’t overjoke about sex. It will piss soem women off. For another, don’t rush tings unless the girl tells you it is alright. If you rush things, they will become uncomfortable and not want to be around you. Also, don’t abuse girls and you should treat them well. Don’t threaten to kill yourself if the girl leaves you…and that is all I got. Take this from a girl’s perspective. I am a girl, but I can’t speak for ALL the female populus when I say this. I’m not like most girls.
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just be yourself and don’t try to impress a woman. A potential girlfriend wants to laugh, and be listened to. You might find a couple of really good jokes to tell a woman. If they think you’re funny you’re on the right track.
I do not have a woman either, somehow I feel I do not need one, when I looked at the past I have had many girlfriends, most have been well educated, one was a biochemist, one was a violinist, one was a neuroscientist, my former US spouse had not gone through a college completely, I kind of feel that I am now in the peace with myself.