Discussion from @san_pedro
To believe in love histories, that you like caresses and being hugged, a lot of kisses, telling beautifull things,ā¦ Haha
really is that romantic???
That is a given all couples do that when they love like each other?!
I am not sure about the word ācaressā
What do I know about being romantic?
Sheesh, for valentines day my (ex) husband bought me a personal copier- you know, the thing that duplicates papers,- I thought that it was the best Valentines day present - Ever.
Been told a few times this is not normal, but what the heck.
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well I am not sure if it is better than a vacuum cleaner on Valentineās 
I guess most men need some teachingā¦ What you like, go shopping together. Last year on Valentine (?) I received a Tiffany Bracelet 
Which unfortunately I wore it once
Honestly In my opinion and personal experience, words are much more important for women.
Women like what they hear. Women like Effort
He once asked me while in a rather, uh, um, āfriskyā mood, in his best sexy voice, He whispered in my ear to tell him what he could do that would āturn me onā.
Without missing a beat I replied, āThe dishes!ā
Folks do not try this at homeā¦
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AWWWWWW Come on!!!
How many years have you been in a relationship???
My parents are more fun than both of us
That one lasted 25 years, I had been married longer than I had been single.
Oh the things that people donāt tell you about getting married!
Iām currently married, (my second one, his first-although he had a relationship for 20 years with the same woman before)
and itās going on 4 years now.
Funny thing is, my ex husband and current husband get along fine, as do me and my ex, no drama (I dislike any kind of drama, so unnecessary) and I talked to my current husbands āexā (and their kids)on the phone-(they live too far away to visit) and no drama there too.
Itās nice.
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I think a man intrinsically becomes romantic if heās really with who he wants.
I donāt knowā¦ Iām a romantic man. Most if not all of the girls Iāve been with are pleased with me. Consider it bragging but I fin it funny that stories roll in. The girl who gave me my first kiss in kindergarten met up with my cousin and was going on about how she kissed meā¦ as a romantic thatās both a dorky and sweet thing to hear.
I think itās more about sentiment. The moment matters. There is restraint, and the actual partners matterā¦
I mean Iāll just say it sucks that the world isnāt quite geared to see it that wayā¦ because to us all else is debaucheryā¦
That said not many have a smooth tongue and Iāve only been with a couple girls who seemed good at sex.
I think all of it gets better later in life.
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I donāt know much about romance anymore. One thing I think is romantic is getting flowers for a significant other just because. That scored me points once a long time ago. Also apparently whispering sweet nothings in spanish even though they donāt quite speak spanish.
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I have been with my partner for 9 years one year for valentines day I got her a card, I donāt remember what it said I just know it made her cry. then one year before that she was in the hospital after she had cyst removed from her ovaries and I got her roses and a stuffed animal that was a pig.
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