If I had to be honest, I prefer guys from the z generation. I am 27 but younger guys are much more attractive and I’ve never felt much interest for anyone my own age. I would also like to find someone my best friend approves of. And someone reliable who can take care of me, and has a good upbringing or developed good values, has good character and is not judgemental of my illness and makes me happy to be around them just as a friend. Having a good job and car are nice, but I feel like you have to find a guy you can stick with even if they get schizophrenia. And intelligence is attractive to me as well. I’m sure there are other good qualities in a guy that I’m just too stupid to think of.
Someone who is caring attractive and smart if they are funny that’s a bonus
Someone with the same interests. Sensitive. Caring and loyal.
I did a lot of online dating and a lot of those dates were only after one thing…
It got tiring. I wanted someone that I can get to know and vise versa.
It took me a hell of a lot of online dates to find my partner. He’s kind , it’s not always about you know …sex… Because that gets tiring for me. I don’t know if I’m asexual he says I am not but I don’t know.
we do plenty of other things and he’s actually interested in going out theatres and movies and eating out … He’s actually interested in getting to know me. And me him.
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What im attracted to and what im looking for used to be different.
I was physically attracted to highly dominant, egoistical, smart, sexual, adventurous, freespirited guys.
I am looking for someone who is kind, empathic, intelligent, sensitive, patient, with strong values.
The difference between the two has been a bit of an issue in the past. I try to go for the second type now. 
I really not that fussed about it. I find all girls attractive so as long as she is a decent person and we get along I am fine with it.
I’m really not attractive or successful enough to be picky, or look for something in someone else. I’d probably just be happy with whomever as long as we got along.
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Someone who looks average, is somewhat on my level of wit, has a good heart, and isn’t too greedy (might need a pre-nup though.)
I’m attracted to fatherly men. A man I know helped me and took charge and was confident. I felt alone and had been given bad advice. It was very attractive when I feel so shitty a lot.
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I guess intelligence, uniqueness, creativity, common interests, stability, loyalty, honesty, open mindedness, few other things. If I could name some traits.
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