I asked if he told his parents which he hadn’t. Apparently he was going to this weekend. I said if he has no intention of telling anyone or meeting my family then to let me know…as it was making me feel he wasn’t serious. I said id rather know if he wasn’t sure about the whole thing. And I’d respect him for telling him . I wouldn’t be angry. He said he’ll tell his family. With a promise. He’ll also meet mine although he’s really nervous about it… I’ll.get it little more time and then if it stays this way then … I’m outta there.
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Hopefully everything works out and he’s just nervous!!
What is he so nervous about? Does he have something to hide?
I’m not sure but I care very deeply about @anon80629714!! We go back!! And I just hope it all works out for her. I know she wants it to work.
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I have anxiety issiues. If he can make room to understand mine why can’t I ? He feels socially awkward around new people.
For the one thing he’s sticking around! Men are weird creatures for sure!
It’s not unreasonable to validate relationships. It really isn’t. It’s a two way street though. If he’s nothing to hide then what is the problem? Watch out for the players! I’m a positive person but keep your guard up till your satisfied!
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He could have social anxiety that’s y he doesn’t want to meet your family. I have anxiety about the same thing.
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It’s not the best thing to discuss romantic matters with others… it breaks an unspoken privacy clause that needs to be respected.
Most of the time I’ve tried to reach out to others for advice it did nothing but confuse what small level of insight that was genuine to the scenario. Most all of the time, all was lost in the process.
What I like to do is fall back on my red flags… if something isn’t going right or if something doesn’t please me… then I remember those kinds of things. If a red flag gets thrown then it’s time to seriously reconsider any emotional investment to the degree of squaring it away out of the mind. If I can find total freedom inside for a couple days where romantic affairs just aren’t a concern at all… then I’ll allow myself the look back to see if I was being unreasonable.
It’s a really dumb thing though, to get into a relationship just for the sake of having one. It is more important to get to know the self over time and find one’s own sense of comfort and company. Then be strict about only letting those who naturally enhance that in.
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