We need to belong somewhere!

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I am talking not only politics.

It’s like we need to belong somewhere like our own hood.

Like as in voting with in a country and we stay away from groups saying I won’t support any party.

But the thing is to belong we need to be in a community.

And within community there are different opinions.

Whom and where I belong to.

It’s true forum.schizophrenia.com it self a community.

Saying like where ever we print out footprints need to belong to a community.

Like for Instance today in office everyone are having there own group of people. Let alone lone wolfs who won’t survive a corporate ladder.

One I need to showcase my work plus have my own group. And tackle obstacles. I have and done being a losser. There is nothing more to lose. It’s only to gain trust and confidence instilled in the heart of people.

I am just talking about where ever we go there is a community. I need to feel belonged.

If I stepped the border then I am a alien and being alienated by people accross the border. Which is what I exactly feel at work place.

Why not make my own group plus do the extra work. And excel.

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Yes like may 24 day,we step on the street and have our pride..

(May 24. Day for sz illness)

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I had related this day to something and I was banned for few weeks not doing that again :person_shrugging::person_facepalming:

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I am thinking of trying to do work experience somewhere full time so I can find a job. I will probably find it hard to fit in too..

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People are a lot like elephants with regard to needing social outlets to stay happy.

World of Warcraft Classic is my outlet. I know it might seem juvenile to some but I raid two or three times weekly with sometimes 19 other people, sometimes 39, and I’m one of the most active people on voice chat and in the guild. I do a lot of help getting things ready for upcoming content and I’ve made a lot of gamer friends who are my age (they are all in their 30’s and 40’s and making Office references).

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Yes, I feel the need to belong to a community too

I need to have a safe place, people similar to me

It’s why I appreciate forums and Discord

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The thing is its sometimes a exclusion and alirnation etc so all minorities are bullying etc too.

For instance government support and care for mentally ill but thats only some of their friends etc

While other mentally ill fet exclyded and bullued so cleverly that so xalled support net works are doing it.

A supposed group for all welcome to talk n not be lonely yet that one person they dicreetly ywt obviously exclude and talk down at and make clear with out words they not welcome in group.

While other disabled people are getting support ,inclusion , holidays , friends and kibdness and respect and empowerment the othed gets abused and 24/7 critisism n put downs.

I feel like i dont havd a people.

‘Family’ wont begin to say abuse they did ehike treatinv others great .

Lgbtq , muslims , jews , amish , rockers , bikers , etc but its all groups hating on me.

I had a x put me on swinv site n then he took over profild n my email n pretended bd me.

I just left .

I dont want swing.

He did.i didnt.

Too much drama.

I want romance n intimacy n connection n passion n freedom n great fckzzz with great best love n so.

Wonder if he n others lied.

Specially those who abused n stole from me may gavd lied while they seem something aint.

I am so alone because i feel like i dont havd a peopld and they made all cultures etc hate n bully me..

Have my partner and dog n nice place to live n good tucker n pretty nails thankfully.

Why havd i been hated whole life almost n …

as a child i cried i want my mummy but i meant one died 1982….i think not roll of one hates me n insanely jealous n destroyed me …

Also cried why does no one love me.

I never belonged as such.

Except felt home with x in sa n feel love n gappy blessed with boyfriend n few rare others.

Also i can enjoy tv thankfully.

Trailer park boys is helping me a lot.

Love thrm.

Forum here.

Most dont like me or get annoyed by me but i hang around as theres a preciouz few that may find me ok :face_savoring_food:and nice to me.

Not having family and friends is rough but not feeling like you have your full srlf way you want n also opressed n bullued n excluded by society n world or most is devastating .n almost consrant critisising , devaluing etc etc

Betrayal n theft of holy n nasty stuff ….

Also i love some facebook memes n profiles.

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