Now he’s saying we shouldn’t see each other any more.
I tried telling him it only triggers around him because he’s the one I see the most, but he wouldn’t listen.
Feels bad man
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I’m sorry you feel bad,
But is this the friend that uses your money and is verbally abusive?
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If he treats you that way, maybe he wasn’t your friend in the first place. 
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Yes it is… 1515
Does he still have your bank card?
Aww geez 
Good riddance. Seriously, you need to get away from him.
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I agree with the others probably the best thing if he’s not being respectful of you.
Yes but he hasn’t memorized the code
You need to get your card back and cut off contact with him.
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I wonder if I would have gotten the same responses if this wasn’t the black sheep doing this to me. If the thread had been about Johanna or my neighbour friend?
If he wasn’t very reliably a massive ■■■■■■■ to you, yes, you would have gotten a different response. Of course you would have. No one thinks your relationship with him is healthy.
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I would have felt negatively about anyone who just wants to cut themselves out of your life when you need help.
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I told my niece that she and her kids and her mom, brother, and step father trigger my psychosis a lot. She told me that “that is Satan Aunt Gina and you are to fight it”. My family always thinks everything to do with my illness has a spiritual source.
That would drive me up a wall. I hate people that are so full of themselves that they think all mental illness can be blamed on some religious whatever.
I’m pretty sure @GrayBear had no idea who you were talking about, and they still agree with us. He has a history of being terrible to you and using you for money. Nobody who knows the situation is going to be nice about him. He’s an abuser.
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I appreciate the concern.
The worst part is he accused me of acting like a child and blaming it on my psychosis.
All because I was trying to explain that sometimes I just don’t want to hang out.
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Sorry for the late reply - somehow i just read the thread,
But get your card back and Fck the bloke off - hes clearly abusive and taking the piss
Dont be a victim - if he has your pin - order a new card.
You dont want tossers like that in your life.
I’m just sad. I feel like he’s betrayed me by saying those things, and I want to tell him that but I don’t want to aggravate him further.
I wish I could just forget him, but friends are rare in my life and I want to keep the ones I have.
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You shouldn’t have to change who you are so that someone else’s needs are put first. YOU matter.
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