I try to be mature. I live on my own, work, pay bills, etc. my biggest problem is keeping up with cleaning my apartment.
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I agree. Everyone regardless of gender somewhat puts up a front when they’re out in public. You have to try and sort of break it down a little bit when meeting someone new. Like approach it the way you would with making a new friend.
And the nice thing about the library is if it goes South you have a very small chance of ever running into them again. 
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I ment to be mature in relationship…
Like you take lead in conversation,show her that you want to meet her,and I’m sure you will succide…
Worst part is crossing the point beetween friend and potential boyfriend.
Tell her you are alone and like to meet someone you will be compatibile with.
Good luck in breaking the ice…
You’re doing better than some normies. I wish you well in your endeavors. Something will pop up for you. Just try to stay positive.
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Yea that’s quite tricky. Because you might scare her away if u tell her. On the other hand u might not…
If it was me I would tell her the truth but also say that if she doesn’t feel the same u will completely respect that and the boundaries.
If she’s a true friend, to you and you to her, hopefully that wouldn’t break the friendship 
But u know better, follow what u think is right thing to do.
No your not dude. You gotta love yourself first. The truth is your none of those things.
Im not female but I think you have to just be yourself and not worry if you aren’t someone’s cup of tea. You need to meet more people in real world situations to increase your chances of meeting someone who you can have mutual feelings for. I also would not divulge diagnoses until you know someone well and they know enough about you not to be judgemental.
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