Thinking positive over-done

my life was horrendous due to lots of victimization and now i am being asked to think positive about everyone so i won’'t be para noid

my memories deserve better than that for ME i feel.

judy

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I don’t think you have to feel positively about everyone. I don’t. Honestly, most people are prats. I think it does help to have a growth mindset where you see your past negative experiences as necessary for future positive experiences. You learn from what happened and apply it to what happens next, hopefully with an improved outcome. Learning to think of mistakes more along the lines of being lessons makes them hurt less and opens you more to future possibilities.

Does that help?

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@ifeelblessed sorry that must be confusing…and sorry for the victimization.

thanks to both of you for your support here.

i find i am stumped again over some of the issues in my life so i cannot say i have learned better from my mistakes – not all of them at least.

judy

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