Don’t laugh.
Feels so bad is like highschool crush.
I’m terrified , because deep down I don’t think i deserve to be loved.
I really hope I don’t ■■■■ this up,
I’m scared that I am deluded . It feels realer than anything I’ve ever felt before and I’m worried it’s gonna go from good
To super unhealthy . I’m pretty sure he’s too good for me, I’m not used to feeling so damn happy. I need advice I guess or just to tell someone ,
Welp I’ve told you all now:’
Is intense a bad thing? I can’t tell if it’s right or terrifying, it’s like the nervous excitement of psychosis, standing on edge of cliff wondering whether or not to jump kind of feeling . I didn’t think I could feel this way, had given up completely. It’s all new.
Yes I know I sound like an idiot or lovesick puppy. I’m laughing at myself.
I’m not like this often
Why can’t I just enjoy it and let myself be happy? Overthinking soooo much.
Basically the question is,
How to tell it’s real? I wish I knew.
Just relax and enjoy it.
That’s what I needed to hear haha thanks. I’m afraid I’m being selfish sometimes if I let myself feel happy or even content…
I’m gonna do my best to take you’re advice, I think you’re probably right
Expect nothing and you will be okay, just go with the flow
I was expecting nothing,
That’s why it’s caught me by surprise haha.
You’re right I’m gonna go with it.
Nothing much to lose here
Need to stop questioning it and being vaguely suspicious haha
I do the same thing. I think I’m not worthy of a relationship and I question it. Remember everyone is worthy of love. U have some stuff going for you I think you are a fun force on this board. Good luck!! 
Congratulations on being in love!!!
This question should answer itself if you give it some time. When people say you just know, it’s true. By three months in, I knew I was in love like I’d never been before. By six months, I knew we would be together forever. And five years later, there has never been any question ever again.
He lets me be myself, and I let him be himself, and neither of those things clash with each other. We have clearly defined boundaries, which we both respect at all times. We have rich lives apart from each other, and it makes the shared parts of our lives even better.
When I was first dating my husband, I was fretting. He was so much more respectful, kind, and mature than anyone I’ve ever dated in my life! I felt like I was being shallow by loving all those traits so much. But the truth is, it’s totally okay to know what you deserve and not settle for less.
I really needed to hear that(:
I’m super happy for you also. I think all anybody really wants it to be loved and have a connection.
It’s nice to hear it’s a real and possible thing haha
Relish the lust and passion that a fresh relationship offers.
In time he’ll be saying, “You sound just like your Mother”
And you’ll be scolding him for drinking out of the milk carton!
Yes, “lust” and “passion”…
Oy vey…
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