is important because people can manipulate somehow to make you unable to know something whether by yelling, hazing or getting nervous. It should not be wrong to know anything I am mature enough to know. There is pride and fear apparently. We are adults here on the forum.
huh? what happened? it’s usually meant to be get back to me.
you’re confusing me, sorry. Thank you for the comment.
Do what now?!! I’m going to need some more context here.
Have you ever heard of a masculine woman? In her head, she is a boy. Anything feminine is rejected. So, she doesn’t “know” she’s a girl. It’s blocked out of her ability to know, just like some people can’t get higher mathematics, they can’t know it.
do you mean transgender? Pretty sure masculine women know they’re women. Even transgender men know they’re born female.
You mean know intellectually, I mean it emotionally and sexually. I feel something blocks their development.
Nothing blocks development of socially constructed gender roles. That’s ■■■■■■ up. Not everyone has to be cisgender and straight to be normal. The ■■■■ is this, the 50s?!
When did I imply that it was a disgrace to not understand something?
Why do you think a woman that chooses not to embrace ■■■■■■ up gender roles had to refuse to know she’s a woman?! You hear how ■■■■■■ up that is, don’t you?
I didn’t say “refuse” to know, I said “can’t” know, like some people aren’t good at higher maths and can’t know what it’s all about.
You’re infuriating. That’s a really ■■■■■■ up thing to say and you’re too ignorant to even listen. I’m done.
I was only referring to my own inability to understand a lot of concepts. I meant something personal and am not infuriated by it. Evidently, you are taking this personally and are offended. I am sorry. That is your own interpretation.
The only way this is at all an acceptable statement is if you’re a lesbian and you’re referring to only yourself. Ffs
I’ve been called one so many times I’ve lost track. There is little excitement in my life - I’m lucky to feel excited about food.
Do you actually not know if you’re a lesbian or are you just being intentionally obtuse?
Alright, @LED, you have to realize I’m a child of the 50’s. I don’t know your age, but if you can’t realize that some of us are suppressed due to fear of almost certain rejection, you are not being sociably understanding at all.
So, you’re old so you’re allowed to refuse to learn? You’re old so it’s okay because that’s just how thing used to be? You’re old so you’re allowed to be offensive? That’s the argument you’re going with?
People are rejected now, too. People are still murdered for their gender identity and sexuality. Suicide rates are still very high. You’re not a kid. Grow up.
You refuse to refer to my analogy with mathematics. I am a celibate because of sexual traumas in my childhood. You, I’m sure, have run into a subject you couldn’t understand. I do not hate lgbt’s. I live with one and am a long time friend of another. In my day, it was so scorned that I dated girls who appeared to all the world to be boys. They would not let me know.
BECAUSE THE MATH ANALOGY ISN’T THE OFFENSIVE ONE!!!
Ffs, do you really not get that?!