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Why would you post that here? Not only do people here struggle with how to feel successful, but hardly any of us have the latent will to just stew in thoughts of revenge. I think it’s a little shortsighted.
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Or is the best success massive revenge 
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I have no real interest in “massive success” at this point in my life. I feel lucky to have what I have, especially a decent roof over my head!
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The way I heard it put was that “living well is the best revenge”. A person can be a CEO of a large corporation and still be miserable. I think being happy in spite of meager circumstances is the best thing for some of us to strive for.
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the best revenge is forgetting the grudge. life is too short to waste on revenge. 
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I think all the people I messed around in my life are enjoying their revenge in that case.
How did you mess people around everhopeful? I sometimes feel the same way.
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I was an undiagnosed alcoholic and schizophrenic, so my behaviour wasn’t the best at times. We’ll leave it at that! 
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in my books successful can mean beating anything that’s self defeating, so why not this helpful post?
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Splendid man…!!
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even breathing fresh air is successful in a number of ways
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Absolutely…!!! Show me the money Honey…!!!
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when people right u off as dirt but u rise above and reach success, theres where my post lines
ones success is different for everyone
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I’m not interested to revenge anyone, revenge is a state of mind of a boy and girl. I don’t think that revenge or anger towards other people is productive in any way.
It’s a victim mentality, if anyone who worked long enough just to prove something for someone other than herself/himself, that makes no sense to me.
Always work for your own success. Contribution to society and and helping those who can not pay you back, is more rewarding, and it feels so amazingly damn good.
(No shots at op)
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Revenge is a dish best served cold…so the best revenge is the type where you fake your death…so no petty ■■■■■■■■…that’s just dumb…if you don’t have to fake your death to get your revenge…just let it go…not many things are so serious…
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Delusions of grandeur
revenge on who? i try to avoid a me against the world mentality.
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I think Sly Stallone said this as well in reference to the Rocky movies. Great quote.
perhaps if you allow vengeance to be a motivator… but I’ve seen a lot of irrational and all around damaging things in the name of vengeance.
I don’t like it. I mena I’m a man who kind of lacks motivation and resolve in general. I like to be patient with the development of my future successes… if they ever come to pass. I do hack away at the brush occasionally and reveal a few more things I think I need to know.
I hate the message of life that is you’re born, you work, you die. and the middle literally is work work work work work… people with work ethic won’t ever let you get away without being aware that you’re slacking.
Just do it. Nah you just do it… quit hesitating… it’s like I’m not hesitating… I’m trying to rationalize if it’s necessary. And a whole lot of the time it absolutely isn’t.
That said I do maintain house and self and car and relationships and work to a level that I feel secure in… while living inside one of the diagnosed schizophrenic minds. A hellish condition. I get my ■■■■done, but I hate that feeling of being a slave. I don’t care if the money benefits me in the end.
I have some potentially tremendous and exhausting projects ahead of me. I know inside once they start rolling I’ll be enthralled and thrilled throughout the process of seeing them through. It’s more about being the ongoingly more learned craftsman. It’s insane the rate at which things can be learned when there is real practical use at the end of the line. That’s how I chose my projects. What do I want to learn? What do I think I need to learn? What projects can I take on in design and construction that pertain to those topics?
I’d counter the subject at the top of the page here. “The best vengeance is living well.”
In spite of losing… and in spite of acknowledging loss… you just forgive and forget and learn to lose and don’t let whoever had the one-up on you effect your life or be on your mind in the future. You go unaffected in the face of someone who tried to dominate you to make you feel lesser. Rising above is just letting it go and letting there errant dominance issues take them to the ends of social dissatisfaction elsewhere.
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