Temporarily coming off antidepressants, to show my sister how much they can help

My husband tried coming off his anti depressants. He was much worse, emotionally, 10 days to 3 weeks later and was back to normal only about 5 days after re instating.

The change was SO visible

it was painful to watch him in that emotional state and not liveable for anyone to really cope with.

My sister takes no medication - will not have it with doctors, other addicts, psychologists, therapists, peers with similar addictions
but she will not take anti depressants,
booze and rollies sure but no medication - it is my solution not hers she said
she did try, but there were side effects
i will see if this can make her see the difference (if compatible with a certain drug that suits you and put up with side effects.)
The difference between living a joyful life or one that is stalled at every step
I will speak to my community nurse about this but for the moment I think it is the only thing i can do to show her
i told my husband but not my mum who lives with her, and will talk to them only if they see a difference.
not sure what to expect but i will decide not to purge (high dose fluoxetine) any food i eat
my bulimia only really takes off when I’m psychotic

While she has been suicidal for 4,5 years

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I find taking antidepressants very helpful and I intend to stay on them.
But I don’t think you should make your sister take them if she doesn’t want to.
It is also not a good idea to stop talking medication to prove a point to someone.

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Can be detrimental. I came off of effexor to try another drug and had to go from 75 mgs to 300mgs to get a handle on things. That wasn’t a good decision on my part in hindsight.

I know your Sis has some serious issues but so do you. Firstly you need to look out for yourself first. Then you can be strong for your sister!

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How could i make her?
not about holding her hostage to it

I understand why youd want to do that. But you have to take care of yourself and make sure you’re safe.

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I forgot to say
it only takes most of my pleasure away
i was never seriously depressed just seriously un happy

Just make sure to do it safely with doctor supervision.

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Yeah it’s a risk that your doctor should be aware of. You sister has her own issues and that is sad but she needs to find that spark to be well. If she’s on drugs then that is a different story. Her actions are affected by the drugs…that is never going to happen whilst the drugs are there. There’s been a lot of addicts around here…there’s better folk than me who can answer that!

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I would do it slowly, over 4 days, reducing by 1/4, each day - if it goes a-wry, take them, again - Anti-D’s never hurt me …

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It’s like you’re going to jump off of a bridge, to show your sister what the effects would be like of jumping off of a bridge.

This makes no sense to me. You aren’t thinking clearly and should talk to your Doctor about this reckless idea.

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i never had severe depression
its an unhappiness that doesn’t need to be there for me but it should only take a few weeks

Don’t stop your meds to prove a point. That’s not a healthy decision.

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I’ve changed my mind about this
thanks for the help guys
I would be putting myself at risk for this so I can’t do it

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I’ve changed my mind about this
thanks for the help guys
I would be putting myself at risk for this so I can’t do it

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