I am a women, never had sex, and I don’t even have sex with myself anymore, because it makes me depressed.
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I have a long term partner and so it was yesterday for me.
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I am not as old as my gal friend and she thinks she not needing it, me I wish I had it at lest once a week.
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I’m asexual, but I’ve had some endeavours in the past. Last time was what, almost 2 years ago?
I don’t miss it.
If I feel the physical need for release, I take care of it myself.
I don’t see why sex is important.
Intimacy I can understand, like, the aspect of being near another person and stroking each other’s skin and feeling loved.
But the whole “Hey, I need an orgasm, you’re gonna help me get one and maybe I’ll give you one” deal just seems unnecessary to me, as long as we have hands.
Sex is something I done without
Mainly dew to a thing called schizophrenia was 18 when diagnosed
It’s something I manage without because I know there are worse thing
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i wonder if women get as desperate for it as men, if they do they dont show it
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All I know is I used to be a horny toad until I switched meds.
I’ve finally become more horny as I’ve gotten used to zyprexa
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why is it so hard to get sex now?
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Im a man. Ive had sex 2 times in my life. The first time i was 14, the second time I was 34, i think. Ive had opportunities, but now at this point I really want a girlfriend. Im 38, and since I want the company just as much as sex I think im mature enough for it to maybe lead to marriage.
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I am 30 years male and had sex only two times
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I was on the football team in high school.
I’m 20 now and have panic attacks when I see my own family.
Sad times.
It’s repetitive and it involves being touched. I suppose my libido isn’t enough to overcome that. I’m surprised so many people do it often without any issues.
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WHy was my post deleted?
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I’ve had sex twice with my wife in this month of September. Before that, I was celibate for seven years. Now, I’m getting messages from Gd that He doesn’t approve of this sexual activity. I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to lose my wife and “marriage”.
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Funny that someone brought this old post up again.
Orgasms are not good for my personality I get groggy & snappy & also anxious for like a whole week afterwards… straight male 37yo
i got nothing tbh
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I was praying at church today and asked Gd for guidance on what to do about my “marriage”. I told him to guide me the way I should go. When I got home, I called my “wife” and told her that Gd had sent me messages that our marriage and sex together was wrong in his eyes and that he hadn’t changed any of his rules. And that he was an unchanging Gd. My “wife” told me that she had been feeling “guilty” about our relationship. I told her that was my Gd working on her conscience. So, we both agreed to dissolve our “marriage” just like that and go back to being single and celibate the both of us.
I have a massively strong sex drive that literally drives me insane unless I’m on some sort of medication to suppress it. Seroquel is helping suppress it now but not entirely. Naturally I’m like writhing level wanting sex every night like if a person hadn’t eaten anything in ages and was starving. And nothing can really satisfy it either, like if I get that way during the day, I can get myself off really well but then a few hours later bam horny again. It’s really horrific and I hope as I get older it will relent. It’s also bad because for me my libido triggers my psychosis and I get these experiences of being aggressively sexually abused by demons and spirits. They are so terrible I have ptsd from it.
I hate my sex drive. Tonight it’s been giving me problems too. The demons have been talking to me and it is so hard to tell myself it isn’t real.
Ihave had difficulties with my family too.
Even my closest who I adore.
Thankfully I am back in contact with a a lot of them but unfortunately some seem to want nothing to do with me.
I was promiscuous when I was younger.
Something destructive was steering me and I felt someone else was steering me and I was a binge drinker who can not handle alcohol.
I have also been raped and had bad sexual experiences.
After I had cancer I was celibate for five years and sober .
Then I met my current partner.
We do not get jiggi so often.
I appreciate a peck on the lips and a cuddle.
Apparently I did some wierd side movements when I ride him and I think it made him laugh cause I remember him laughing and then walked away to buy smokes.
Like he thought my movements on him were funny.
He tried describing how to move hips,
Maybe I need to be awoken or be taught how to move my hips?
Hmm
I have dried up a bit but am not a sexual .
There are some problems we need to address if we are to have sex again.