Sure listen to them

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Yes another rant about my in laws. My mother in law when I’m hiding in the apartment will ask all kinds of questions typically starting with what’s wrong. I explain it with out getting too detailed.

Then she will talk to someone else about usually a relative and get very bad advice.

I give my in laws advice on their rabbit and bearded dragon. Then they just dont listen or listen to someone who has no idea what the he’ll they are talking about. Like when i told them the bearded dragons can’t have cabbage. Oh its fine
They eat it in the wild. Or feeding wild caught bugs to Leo. They do it in the wild. But bearded dragons in the wild have a very short life span

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Is there anyway you can move out? Don’t let her stress you.

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That must be really frustrating. It sounds like they really should listen to you about this stuff.

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I wish I could help but all I can say is try to get out of there it seems like a bad situation to be in.

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they should listen to you and treat you better

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i don’t know anymore but they pretty much begged my partner and i to stay and help them catch up on bills because my father in law’s hours are getting cut so they are desperate to pay their bills i want to say screw them my partner wants to stay and help.

i know their opinions on homosexuality and mental illness will never change so i just try to educate them on the lizards and other animals

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Get you a studio apartment and get out of there

Do they ever do anything nice for you?

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You have a good heart. Is there any way after helping your in laws you can move?

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I hope. They’re idea of trying to be nice is way different than normal people’s. My father in law will occasionally say please or thank you.

Most likely though what will happen is we will get their cats ( may as well be our cats) and Leo their bearded dragon because no one will be here to feed Leo his bugs. My mother in law and my partner’s little sister wont do it because they are afraid of the superworms

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It is not your responsibility to bail them out of debt. They make horrible decisions with their money because they know they can just steal all of yours to make up for it. If you cut them off, they will find a way to survive. At this point, you’re both just enabling them to continue being irresponsible. And they’re repaying you by abusing you horribly every chance they get.

Honestly, I know you love Kay, but maybe it’s time for you to move out, regardless of whether she comes or not. You can afford your own place with your disability check. And I can almost guarantee if you move, she will follow you within a month.

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hang in there mate, things will work out in time :wink: i’ll be rooting for you :slight_smile:

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@cbbrown If you and Kay put your money together I’m sure you can afford to move

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