Sometimes I get the feeling that I'm sickly nice, sickly sweet in some people's perspective

Yes I hope I’m not a hopeless case.

Congrats on the job.

Must be exciting BTW.

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Thanks @Zoe :slight_smile:

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Everybody wants to be around someone who is happy and nice. Nobody wants to be around someone who is miserable and mean. Don’t worry so much, you’re fine

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Tbh I think it’s OK for people to express misery

I mean not everyone is always happy

But thanks I appreciate the sentiment.

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you’re hard on yourself for no reason. everyone likes you because of who you are, but even if they didn’t, you shouldn’t change yourself for other people. so be secure. you’re good enough as you are :slight_smile:

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Aw thanks lol.

I like you too as a person!

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Same here. But I am getting better at asserting myself. People would use me in the past bc of my kindness. I am not generally a mean person but I must admit I am turning into a mouthy ■■■■■■■ at 38 years old. :grin:

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I’ve been used for my kindness. i have a kind heart. i’m kind of a selfless person. always been. i wonder how much people see that though.

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You seem nice for sure but I don’t really know you

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