if the people around you make you unhappy do you do your best to improve their character
do you abandon them and surround yourself with different ones
I personally think it may be case-by-case with people who can be helped deserving assistance where those who are unhelpable should be left maybe. a positive character trait of mine that may be double edged is that i think everyone is fixable though so I default to trying to help
Limit interaction with them and improve relations with people who are caring.
Time helping others is wasted if they don’t appreciate it
I abandon them, you cant change people, I have enough problems.
A major hazard for me is drinking buddies. Certain people can trigger drinking urges in me. I have to set strict limits with them.
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