I find myself thinking a lot about people that I’ve lost over the years a lot. I miss my grandparents the most…and my step dad…and my friends that have died…some tragically. I am lucky I am 59. A lot of people my age didn’t make it.
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I’m only 40. But you have to take care of yourself. I miss a lot of family too especially my dad. I’m already getting gray hair lol. Maybe it’s a mid life crisis. Idk. I hope I make it to your age. I feel depressed already. How was your fourties?
I grew up with a rough crowd and not many of us survived til now and I’m 36.
I think about it a lot too.
Sad.
We just have to cherish their memories and enjoy the life we have.
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@roxanna oh you are still so young !! my forties were mixed…I was still struggling with losing my career and very very sad at the beginning of my forties but then I got a med change and I started dating again, got married, got divorced…and now I’m getting married again !!
@GoldenRex so sorry…I lived with a wild bunch too…
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I had a friend who killed himself at 28, I was 22, and he was bipolar. I found a YouTube channel I love and I wondered why and I realized the youtuber has a voice like Robert’s.
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For me it’s the physical signs. Problems that have been present for decades have increased in severity the last couple of years
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I miss my mom and dad who died a few years ago, and some friends who aren’t here anymore. I’m 51 years old and I have white hair and a white Beard also I don’t get around as good as I used to.
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LS! I am 63 years young. I diet and exercise every day. Also I phone my mom every day. But I miss a lot of friends who passed away to young. Must be at least 30 people. People died of drugs, of suicide, of alcohol, of AIDS, of cancer. Only this week my neighbour of twenty years passed away, and Sandra Escher, wife of Marius Romme, passed away, I admired her.
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That’s a lot of loss @agentmulderfbi I’m so sorry
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I don’t know what I am going to do when my mom passes away…I’ll be rich but without my mother…too much to think about…
My father has got more laid-back since being with my stepmum. However there has never been the strong father-son bond that some have. If he phones it’s a few minutes conversation and then he gets my stepmum to talk to me.She could win speed talking contests.
The one thing my father and I do have in common is an interest in family history/genealogy. He’s 91, and when he goes it will leave a big hole My sister started a My heritage site not very long ago, but I only found out about it by chance. She and I have never been that close.She was not pleased that I became mentally ill. I doubt very much I could share my interest in family history/genealogy with her in the way I do with my father.
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