That’s kind of a sly dig.
I’m making an insult about the way we are created?
You’re in your 40’s right? You honestly don’t know what you’re
implyng?
Men and women’s brains are not the same. Its biological. It wasnt said to be insulting. Its just a fact.
I am not arguing against that men’s and women’s brains are different. It’s just when you say most men on here are victims of sexual abuse it seems to be that you’re subtly putting men down . Am I wrong? Being the victim of sexual abuse for a man kind of strikes at his core as a man, though it’s never happened to me. But to use it in a subtle way to put men down or make the point you were making offends me.
Its not meant to be offensive. There is more going on here as to why they are the way they are other than just sexual abuse. I just dont buy that.
Eternal love definitely. I’m actually really bad at not putting my whole heart into relationships. I have always had trouble being with someone briefly just for romance I don’t think my brain works that way. I see many others doing it, I am just incapable of loving someone with no additional emotional attachment.
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Not picking any sides at all, I just want peace, and in defense of Jassy I dont see where Jassy used sexual assault as a way to dig at anybody. I was simply using it as an example as to why someone would choose to not want to get emotionally invested, which in my case is true. Im sorry that peope are hurt over the reason I gave.
@anon12381882 my whole point is that there are many reasons why people would choose short term over long term. Anecdotally there are many women in my life who choose the same. Unless there is an actual peer reviewed study proving that men are more likely to choose short term romance it is purely conjecture and seems like an old stereotype. I dont know of that evidence exists. If it does I would sincerely like to be educated about it.
Please don’t be upset at each other folks, Im sorry I turned it into something more than what it should have been.
Men or women its doesn’t matter. Each person regardless of his gender is different, some prefer short term while others prefer long term. I know both girls and guys who love short term and both guys and girls who love long term. Maybe its just genetic in our personality? Probably and its regardless of gender.
I prefer long term romantic relationships but can’t now due to schizophrenia.
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Neither are right or wrong. Its just a personal/private choice.
Not at all. It has no bearing on my manhood or character. I was a child and defenseless at the time.
The abuse didn’t mess with your head at all?
Eternal love…
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Since I’ve officially came out the closet I’ve only had one night stands so I’m going to say short romance… but before I came out the closet I was with a girl for 4 years till she broke my heart.
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I think that short romance may lead to eternal love.
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Eternal love, eternal support, eternal loyalty eternal friendship…
Eternal unrequited love…sigh how romantic.
I would choose eternal love too but the circumstances of my life made a short romance almost literally the only choice. So I chose neither.
…is anyone else interested in the differences between the voices male patients hear and the ones females hear?..as a guy the worst of them I hear are the female voices…