I actually classify as an… yeah u got it right a male
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Well atleast for the most part
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Today is my 20th wedding anniversary with Mrs. Squirrel. I’m in it to win it!
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Would you prefer a short disappointment or an eternal let down?
Seriously though, don’t be quick to judge. A lot of people have been through the ringer when it comes to relationships and feel more comfortable in a short romance.
Hollywood’s idea of eternal love is BS anyways. You find someone you’re compatible with and hope things workout. Im not actively searching for a long term relationship because that mind set leaves me effed up when things end sour. Its a lot safer emotionally to go for the short romance and just see where it goes.
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Sorry, I dont agree
Its your right to disagree, but I do have to say it’s BS that you’re bashing men without knowing their stories. After being sexually assaulted I dont feel comfortable being that emotionally open again. If that disappoints people then that’s okay I guess. Kind of cold hearted, but it is what it is.
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Movies Weren’t Meant to Lead as Example of Love (Hollywood is Entertainment)
And Those in Honest, Compassionate, Fulfilling Desire, Don’t Look For Guidance From Films
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I would choose short romance simply because you get to experience a life time with romance.
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I wouldn’t call it men bashing when i say i find their behavior disappointing. That’s kinda unfair.
Easy peeps. Don’t turn it into an argument that disrupts the thread. Tit for tat posting doesn’t lead to answers for original poster. Please stay on topic and don’t get personal…
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You’re only saying that because you haven’t tasted my quiche.
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@anon12381882 i$ @ K00|_ N@m3
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Yeah, I wasn’t getting personal. I was simply educating that many people have different relationship preferences for many different reasons, including past trauma, and that I honestly feel that it is wrong to say you’re disappointed in someone elses preferences without even knowing their story. All of this pertains to the subject of the thread on what preferences we have and why, but if you have to Mod out and ban me then thats fine I won’t be mad about that, but I was very triggered by that post and I feel that I have the right to defend my position as does everybody else on this forum when something offensive and triggering is said.
I asked another mod to silence me for 24 hours so I dont get banned for like a week.
Laters, everyone. Have a nice weekend.
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Just trying to nip it in the bud. I didn’t flag any posts and appreciate your point of view because it really is valid and I’m not condoning that or anything remotely like it. I was just reminding everyone to take a few minutes and just relax. These kind of too and throes can escalate quickly and not help anyone.
Stay and play. Your opinion is valid and we are a welcoming community. Life is complicated. Unfortunately here we often have to make judgments that affect people negatively to keep the peace.
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Hey, thanks. I’m still going to take a break for a day. I’ve been manic for a week and a half now and my aggression and irritability is getting the better of me. I dont want to do the same thing that I’m complaining orher people are doing.
Please accept my apologies if I was being agro. I’ll let the thread get back on topic now, peace!
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Neither as both require physical contact. Ick
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Love is a choice. You gotta choose to love someone even at there worst and not just there best.
Soooo it can be like the Thai bar girls say “you want short time or long time?” 
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It’s cuz us men have a monkey on our shoulder thats always tricking us. Monkey only knows right now he doesn’t know eternity lol.
Monkey goes “ooh ah ah look at her look at her ooh ooh ah ah”
Then we just look like turkeys with our heads spinning around
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And by short romance I mean 10 minutes at her house, put my pants back on and then I’m outta there.
Joke!!!
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Yeah, there are just biological differences between men and women that cause this. The majority of men are not choosing this because of some kind of sexual abuse.
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