See how the other half lives.
I think i burned my parents out when i lived with them and they were my caregivers. They still help me out occasionally financially but we get along so much better since i moved away. They finally got to live their own lives and not worry all the time about me.
I couldn’t stay at my Mums, its lucky i met my gf of 14 yrs back then as i could stay with her, i would have been in a terrible state if i’d stayed at my Mums, her sight was getting worse and dad was drinking, they were arguing a lot as well, well mostly mum moaning at my Dad, i felt sorry for dad that way. he was a good guy and took the pups down to the River every day.
My mum is just very hard to live with esp more now, I’d just get in the way and her sight is so much worse now, i’d pretty much be her slave 24/7 do this, do that, etc.
I dropped my psychiatric nurse in 2014 as well, no point them baby sitting me i thought, I’m glad i did as its made me more independent.