RANT: Getting Text- bombed

I ran into a buddy from high school on Facebook. We started texting each other, and at first it was every day to catch up. Laughing about the old days, remember that guy, kind of thing

But it ran its course. The problem is, he didn’t take the hint. He still texted me every single ■■■■■■■ day, and he was texting me at one time between 35 and 50 times and it wasn’t even 6 a.m. yet.

I gave it to him straight finally, and told him to lay off the text bombing. You have any idea how ■■■■■■■ annoying it is to have some drooling moron text you 35 freaking times while you’re talking on the phone, or listening to a new mix? Even if I’m doing nothing, it’s still bloody annoying. I have never once read his texts, the only thing I can think of is that he dumps every bloody thought that crosses his mind onto my phone

I’m ready to blow my lid at the guy. I mean, what the ■■■■ is wrong with you? I don’t even talk to my own sister everyday, let alone a burnout from high school

Okay… I think I’m done

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I have a friend who texts constantly. She asks what I’m doing multiple times per day. She asks me what I’m having to eat. And if I say I’m talking to my husband she’ll say about what. It gets exhausting sometimes. I told her not to text me between 10pm and 10 am. She at least follows that now. She’s a caring friend though so I don’t want to stop being friends. I just don’t like reporting to someone all day every day about what I’m doing

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Woa. :astonished:

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@everhopeful I know, right. It’s bloody ridiculous. I’m coming to regret ever talking to him on Facebook

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@LilyoftheValley that sounds painfully familiar. The difference being that it’s all about him. I could write a text in return, and he clearly doesn’t even read it he just continues spewing whatever BS he’s talking about. He seemed to think I’m his therapist or something. The guy is cooked in the head

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I’m guilty of having been like this more than once.
Yea I guess it’s not ideal.

Maybe not to the extreme of your friend though. With 35 to 50 messages before 6 am…
Lol.

I remember once I matched with a guy from a site. He would text me every hour, you alright?

It’s kinda cute but he ended up not being my type so it was getting annoying and I knew I had to call it quits.

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@Mae Hey, we all take our turn being mildly annoying, LOL. It’s just how extreme it is for so long. I’m sick of having to tell him

The guy checking in with you seems sweet, but yeah it would get annoying if it’s every day every hour

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If he’s not respecting you by not caring about you, and he’s not respecting your wishes, you should block him

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@LilyoftheValley I agree, that’s exactly what I want to do. But it gets complicated. He broke his leg at work about a year ago, and employment insurance has been ■■■■■■■ him around ever since.

I lent him some money so at least he could pay his rent he’s paid half of it back but I really need that cash this summer. I know, stupid move

After that, I think I’m just going to block him

I wouldn’t count on getting that money back easily. Is there a signed agreement that he would pay you back?

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I trust that he will pay me back. He’s not a scammer , just a pain in the ass

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Or maybe coked.

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He did fry himself on that Oxycontin ■■■■. But he went through NA and got clean. Now he’s just on methadone every day. I think it’s a case of, the damage is done

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You can block text messages. Just google search how to do it on the type of phone that you’re using.

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I’m glad you can rely on getting your money back

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I dont text my friends when they’re at work to not annoy them.

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He started pulling the same old ■■■■ tonight. I finally just blocked him out. I don’t give a ■■■■ about the money anymore, he drives me nuts.

I’ve told him repeatedly to knock off the text bombing, and he doesn’t get it. Brain-dead ■■■■■■

This is exactly why I don’t own a cellphone.

I have a house phone land-line. If it’s anything important, the caller will leave a message.

I’ve never texted a message before…nor do I care to.

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Good call. I don’t usually text with people. Text is for sending single questions like, “Are you free?”. If the person doesn’t answer, you just drop it.

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I enjoy my minimalist lifestyle.

No phones, TV or Radio. I have more time for my music without all of the white noise.

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