R u on good terms with your parents?

I have recently resolved a very big resentment towards my mom. It made my disease worse. I haven’t talked to my dad in a half a year, he’s in Thailand and in dementia.

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I have found that I do a lot better in life if I don’t struggle against them and instead accept that they exist the way they do

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I have a good relationship with both my parents.

My mom is a workaholic and my dad likes to insult me.

Either way, we get along and are in daily contact.

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I’m on the best terms I’ve ever been with them now that they are dead.

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I wonder if they’ll become part of my voices when they die.

I’ve heard them before in my head.

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For you, I hope not.

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The funny thing is (because I trust my mom). I was saying to her what she was saying in my head.

She was like ‘not true and not true’.

My voices are full of rubbish.

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Same. Amazing how that goes.

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Mums Dead. Fathers a philandering Arsehole. What can i say. No comment lol.

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I’m on very good terms with my parents.

We’ve been through some rough patches,

But overall it’s a great relationship I have with both of them.

We talk everyday and I see them pretty frequently.

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No not really, but I’m seeing them tomorrow for dinner.

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Good luck with that your parents sound very passive aggressive
Or rather i should say it sounds like a complicated scenario. Passive aggressive may be unfair

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I am on good terms with my parents. Most of the time.

We live with them/they let us live with them…. So we gotta be on pretty good terms

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You’re a lucky goyle. Enjoy!

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They’re toxic that’s for sure

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No. My mum is dead. Our relationship was ambivalent until she died. :cry:

My dad is still alive. I really hope our relationship can heal one day. But I needed to minimalize contact. I kept being triggered into delusional flashbacks. Because of his threats and covert agression. He explicitly said he is not willing to seek help. Or be honest. Or stop the b*llshit. So I needed to protect myself, in order to protect kid as well.

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I’m on good terms with my parents
Didn’t always get on with my dad but ok now
Used to be friends with my mum and go shopping lunch coffee with her but now she’s in a home with dementia

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My relations with my mom have never been better.

(She’s dead.)

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I hope I continue to get on well with my parents.

The rest of my family have become overcomplicated politically for me to bother with them

Feelings mutual… they don’t contact me either.

Last time was my nans funeral on the 20th January 2023

When she left us, the haters really had no one moderating like my nan used to do.

She was basically the head of the family, and she kept her faculties to the very end.

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Both my parents are dead now.

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